tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-90904968910316740022024-03-05T04:18:42.207-08:00Natural LoftHanz Jamaludinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15069250576483216563noreply@blogger.comBlogger156125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9090496891031674002.post-33388214507682150732015-10-20T08:07:00.001-07:002015-12-07T03:54:44.043-08:00Lifetime Gentle Birth Knowledge Pays Off<br />
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Hari ni sudah hari kelapan kelahiran anak keempat saya dan baru berkesempatan untuk share serba sikit kisah kelahiran.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif; line-height: 19.32px;">Bermula dari awal kehamilan saya checkup di Hospital Columbia Asia Cheras Balakong. Setengah jam perjalanan dari rumah untuk ke hospital tersebut. Memilih keputusan ini walaupun ada hospital yang lebih hampir dari rumah di Bangi kerana review dari GBG yang pernah mendapat gentle birth di hospital ini.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Hari Raya Haji (minggu ke-37): Sakit pinggang banyak kali sejak malam. Sedang berhari raya di Melaka. Checkup di Hospital Jasin, ada mild surge tapi tiada bukaan. Beg kelengkapan ke hospital tak dibawa balik kampung. Jadi buat keputusan untuk tinggalkan anak-anak lain di kampung, dan balik berdua ke Bangi dengan suami untuk bersiap ke Hospital Columbia Asia. Mild surge hingga ke tengah malam. Tak jadi ke hospital sebab tengah malam surge berhenti.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Terjaga tersentak jam 3 pagi surge di bawah perut. Tak dapat tidur semula hingga ke siang hari. Mild surge datang dan pergi, sekejap-sekejap. Jadi ingat hanya braxton hicks seperti selalu.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><i>Tengah hari:</i> Download contraction timer di telefon bimbit. Terdetik adakah hari ini harinya? Naluri tergerak untuk masak bihun goreng banyak-banyak cukup untuk makan tengah hari dan makan malam sekali. Sambil memasak sambil tekan timer di handphone. Setelah beberapa bacaan ditekan, muncul 'amaran' di app iaitu sudah masanya untuk ke hospital. Saya tunjuk app pada suami dan berbincang. Bersetuju untuk pergi jika surge makin kuat atau keluar tanda.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Petang: Berziarah ke rumah baru ipar di Bandar Sri Putra. Surge makin terasa tapi masih boleh bertahan. Naluri masih ragu-ragu sebab tiada keluar tanda lagi. Ketika perjalanan pulang, teringin nak shopping di MR DIY tapi suami ajak balik sebab kepenatan. Makan bihun goreng pada lewat petang sambil layan surge.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><i>Malam:</i> Surge di punggung makin ketara. Ketika solat maghrib dan kemudian isyak, surge kuat di punggung ketika bersujud, hampir sahaja memberhentikan solat. Usai solat isyak, saya baca Surah Maryam sambil berjalan ke sana ke mari. Suami ketika itu di tingkat atas menguruskan anak-anak. Seorang diri menenangkan diri, sampai ke suatu ayat, saya terhenti bacaan kerana surge yang kuat. Saya panggil suami dan meminta dia hubungi adiknya untuk jagakan anak-anak di rumah.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">10++ malam: Adik ipar tiba. Saya dan suami bergerak ke Balakong. Terasa perlahan benar suami bawa kereta. "Abang, kenapa bawak slow sangat?" Surge beberapa kali dalam perjalanan, vocalise "Allaahhh.." ketika surge datang.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">11.00 pm: Tiba di hospital. Bidan pasang alat CTG. Sekitar 40 minit juga (tak silap) bacaan diambil untuk 'dapat bacaan yang cantik'. Seksa benar bila surge datang dan terpaksa berbaring. Suami menyuapkan air zamzam dan kurma, serta mengingatkan saya untuk ingat Allah dan bernafas dengan baik.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Selesai CTG, bidan periksa bukaan, 4 cm. Saya tersenyum bila dapat tahu yang anak saya akan menzahirkan dirinya tak lama lagi. Suami diminta buat pendaftaran & pembayaran di kaunter.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Surah Yasin dipasangkan dalam bilik bersalin. Bidan diberitahu tentang birth plan saya. Antara permintaan saya dalam birth plan adalah privasi tak mahu diganggu. Jadi bidan tinggalkan saya seorang diri melayan surge dalam bilik bersalin setelah menukarkan baju saya dan memadamkan lampu.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Saya rasa sedikit stress sebab berseorangan ketika surge. Keingininan saya pada masa itu adalah seseorang untuk saya berpaut dan bagi kata-kata semangat waktu surge datang. Terasa dalam hati seperti menyesal buat birth plan begitu (haha..). Bila surge datang, saya paut di pemegang katil untuk half squat sambil vocalising. "Manalah abang ni...? Kenapalah lama sangat?"</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif; line-height: 19.32px;">0005 am: Bidan datang menjengah. Saya fikir dia mahu temankan saya, rupa-rupanya dia minta saya isi borang-borang. Lepas tu dia keluar. Aisehh...</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">0015 am: Suami idaman saya akhirnya muncul. Tapi air zamzam pula sudah habis saya minum sepanjang waktu tadi. Suami terpaksa keluar sekali lagi dan meninggalkan saya melayan surge seorang diri. "Allaahh.." saya vocalise dengan kuat tiap kali surge datang.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">0030 am: Suami muncul dengan bakul makanan. Kain batik pula tak ada. Baju hospital yang separas lutut membuat saya rasa tak selesa kesejukan. Suami hampir sahaja meninggalkan saya sekali lagi... Namun, saya tahan suami dan minta saya temankan ke tandas dahulu sebab terasa mahu buang air kecil. Tak sempat melangkah, suatu surge kuat datang dan saya mencangkung di lantai (sambil terkencing di situ). Suara keras saya memanggil "Bidan! Bidan!" Dua orang bidan berlari masuk ke bilik bersalin dan membantu saya naik ke katil.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Surge kuat datang sekali lagi, dan dengan keadaan mencangkung di atas katil sambil berpaut di pemegang katil, air ketuban saya pecah. Kedengaran suara bidan "SROM! SROM!" Surge kali ini lebih panjang.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif; line-height: 19.32px;">Bidan minta saya berbaring untuk periksa denyutan jantung bayi dan bukaan pintu rahim. Saya beritahu bahawa saya tak selesa berbaring, jadi bidan naikkan penyandar katil. Sambil duduk CTG dipasang. Bidan kata, "Bacaan tak berapa cantik." Tapi saya kata pada diri sendiri, semuanya okay. Hanya saya terlupa bernafas dengan betul masa surge kuat tadi. Jadi saya tarik nafas dalam-dalam dan hembus beberapa kali. Saya rasa hebat!</span><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif; line-height: 19.32px;"> </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif; line-height: 19.32px;">"Puan, bukaan 7 cm, baby tinggi lagi.." beritahu bidan. Selepas tali CTG dibuka dari perut saya, suatu surge lebih kuat datang dan membuatkan saya berpaut di palang kaki katil. Sambil berposisi all four, surge kuat itu membuatkan sebahagian kepala anak saya keluar. Salah seorang bidan menahan kepala anak saya. Terketar-ketar suara saya antara fokus bernafas sambil berkata, "Jangan tahan. Biarkan..."</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Doktor obgyn saya tiba. Surge seterusnya pun datang berserta ring of fire. Kata beliau, "Puan.. Anak Puan nampak biru. Cepat teran, Puan!" Beberapa kali diingatkan begitu sewaktu surge. Suasana sedikit kalut.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Fokus saya sedikit terganggu antara bernafas dengan tenang dengan tergesa-gesa menghabiskan semuanya. Suami mencium dahi saya dan bisikkan "Anak kita okay.. Tarik nafas, sayang.."</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">0051 am: Surge akhir yang kuat, dengan suara keras saya yang kuat saya sebut "Allahhhhh.." sambil tangan saya terketar-ketar memaut pemegang katil, anak saya selamat dilahirkan dan segera disambut oleh doktor. Segera doktor memotong tali pusat anak saya sebab katanya tali pusat anak saya sudahpun putih dan tiada pulse. Dan segera juga doktor dan bidan lakukan suction dan buatkan anak saya menangis.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Tak putus-putus saya dan suami menyebut "Alhamdulillah" sambil saya menukar posisi semi-baring. Bidan menyerahkan anak kepada saya untuk skin-to-skin, sementara doktor mengeluarkan uri.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Selesai semuanya, doktor dan bidan meninggalkan kami berdua di dalam bilik bersalin untuk momen privasi kami selama lebih kurang setengah jam. Dan kemudian barulah bayi diambil untuk dibersihkan dan saya dibawa ke wad.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Alhamdulillah, perjuangan saya untuk mendapat vba2c telah berjaya bulan lepas. Saya kongsikan cerita ini supaya sesiapa yang masih mencuba untuk vbac terus berusaha dan jangan sesekali putus asa.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Lepas solat Subuh saya baring-baring kejap. Terasa air meleleh keluar. Pergi check kat bilik air, air yg keluar warna coklat cair. Rasa happy campur risau sikit. Happy pasal rasa dah nak jumpa baby dah ni, risau pasal air ada warna la pulak, bukan clear. Tapi tak ada bau. Surges ada tapi sikit-sikit sahaja. Saya siapkan barang-barang dan bawa anak-anak ke rumah mak. </span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; line-height: 19.32px;">Sepanjang hari surges come and go. Leaking masih ada, kena tukar pad a few times. Air masih warna coklat cair. Dah lewat petang baru dapat 5-1-1 dan lepas Maghrib saya ajak husband pergi hospital.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Some lucky mamas bila dah 5-1-1 tu, sejam lepas tu dah bersalin. Saya pulak, jalan baru buka 2cm, baby pun masih tinggi lagi kat -2 station. Beritahu Hanz, dia suruh balik je dulu. Hehe.. Tp since dah leaking dari pagi, fluid pulak ada color, dan surges pun dah pick up I decided to stay at the hospital. Kena administer antibiotik. <i>(Saya tak sempat baca buku Dr. Tadashi sebelum ni so saya pun ok je la psl antibiotik tu).</i></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Admitted at 9.30pm. Lepak kat bilik dgn gym ball, kurma, air zam-zam, dan 1000mg Vit C, sambil dengar ayat Quran dan birth affirmations ulang-ulang. Saya kena buat ctg monitoring di labor room every 6 hours rasanya. Tapi guna yang wireless punya so still ada freedom of movement la, takdelah terbaring je. Habis ctg, balik bilik dan tidur dulu.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">At 4am the doctor came to check on me. She is totally fine with my decision to wait for the baby to come at his own time. She just calmly explained the risk of sepsis but won’t force me into anything. I can wait at the hospital or if labor stalled, nak balik pun ok. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; line-height: 19.32px;">So hari Ahad adalah hari menunggu. Menunggu dalam kesakitan. Huhu.. I won’t lie to you, I found surges quite painful. </span><i style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; line-height: 19.32px;">(Tapi contractions lepas kena induce jauh lagi sakit la)</i><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; line-height: 19.32px;">. Since tak nak drug segala kan, kena la pandai-pandai cope dengan surges tu sendiri. My gym ball sangat-sangat membantu. </span><i style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; line-height: 19.32px;">(So janganlah lupa bawa gym ball ke hospital).</i></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Pukul 10 pagi saya beritahu nurse nak masuk dalam pool. Dalam pool pun kena monitor heartbeat baby dan contractions. <i>(Ini memang syarat doctor for allowing me TOLAC pasal saya dah ada 2 scars. Since guna yg wireless punya, saya tak la kisah sangat)</i>. 2 jam berendam dalam air suam, memang sungguh2 menenangkan. Hasilnya surges makin kuat dan kerap.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Dari pool ke atas katil ke atas gym ball ke dalam toilet ke tepi dinding ke atas couch balik ke bilik, balik semula ke labor room. Jalan sana, squat sini. Sambil apply breathing technique sambil buat visualization. Masa ni ingat 3 je, <i>“I see my breath filling a magnificent balloon” masa uterus contract, rose bud opening and blue satin ribbons masa inhale/exhale</i>. Siang tu my husband balik rumah sekejap pasal I pack my stuff je, barang dia tak cukup. Lol! So berseorangan la layan surges di bilik. Nasib baik dia balik tak lama sangat. Breakfast, lunch, tea, dinner lauk hospital.. nasib baik dah pesan husband beli coklat siap-siap. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Pukul 10 malam saya request lagi sekali untuk masuk pool pasal dah sakit sangat masa ni. 1.5 minit sekali kot surges datang. Masa ni guna vocalization pulak. “Ooh aah ooh aah” dalam pool and I make sure tak clench my teeth and keep my jaw loose. My husband was there the whole time to remind me to breathe, wiping my sweaty forehead, fetching me iced water, and giving moral support.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">But another day passed, and still no baby..</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Pukul 12.30am saya still dalam pool tapi rasa dah penat sangat. Rasa nak baring jsekejap. Masa tengah rest di katil doctor datang dan check. “Baby is posterior, so you need to push like you have a sembelit.” Hmmmph.. patutlah sakit sangat and when I tried to breathe him out and nothing much happened.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">At 1 am I was back in the pool and tried every positions in the book. I think all the squats and yoga really help me at this time. 4 hours of hard labor in the warm water and telling myself to "Let it go.." when I felt the ring of fire, and his head was finally out. Yes!!! His whole body came out after the next push/surge. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">My baby is here! I did it! Alhamdulillah, Ya Allah, syukur dan gembiranya memang tak terkata!!! Hilang segala penat dan mengantuk dapat peluk baby. He came out with a little vernix, very calm and alert and didn’t cry. Lepas doctor tepuk-tepuk sikit baru nangis, pasal saya yg bertanya ok ke dia tak nangis ni. Padahal baby tak ada sebab pun nak nangis sebenarnya.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">So I got all that I wanted in my birth plan. Drug free (except the antibiotic), all natural, freedom of movement, eat and drink as I wanted, no episiotomy, immediate skin to skin+delayed cord clamping for over an hour, breast crawl, and natural 3rd stage. Placenta came out just minutes after I got out of the pool. And I ended up with no stiches, awesome!</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">46 hours of looooong labor dari mula leaking hingga lahirnya my 3.45kg baby boy pada pukul 4.47 pagi. Fizikal dan mental memang kena kuat la kalau nak beranak. Seriously. Hard work, but so worth it.</span></div>
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<b><span style="background-color: white; color: #141823;">READ ALSO HER TIPS ON PREPARING FOR VBA2C </span><a href="http://www.naturalloft.com/2015/10/how-this-mama-prepare-for-her-success.html" style="background-color: white;"><span style="color: red;">HERE</span></a></b></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Masa saya tengah pregnant dulu, saya lagi seronok baca prep mamas semua untuk VBAC dari the successful birth story itself. So I will share my preparations, mana tau ada orang yang boleh dapat manfaat juga.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 19.32px;">Bukan saja perlu cari doktor yang sokong usaha kita, nurses pun kena yang pro gentle birth dan cari hospital policy yang mother and baby friendly pun sama penting. Saya tinggal di Shah Alam tapi sanggup je pergi monthly check up di Seri Kembangan seorang diri pasal majority hospital yang laga dekat dengan rumah memang saya blacklist (based dari pengalaman sendiri dan pengalaman ibu-ibu lain). Mak dan suami saya sendiri mula-mula memang pelik apsal la nak pergi check up jauh-jauh.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 19.32px;">Saya start dari mula je dapat tahu saya pregnant. Tak la setiap hari tapi maybe seminggu 3-4 kali kot. Buat selagi perut tak besar dan cover scar. Video cemana nak buat ada dlm group ni.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 19.32px;">Setiap Jumaat malam selama 6 bulan berturut-turut saya pergi prenatal yoga. Bagi surirumah macam saya, dapat sejam untuk diri sendiri memang macam dapat pergi vacation punya seronok. Saya mula yoga dari masuk 2nd trimester hingga la ke week 38.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 19.32px;">Tulis birth plan dan bincang dengan doctor. Give and take mana-mana yang patut. Do it early. Saya memang upfront dengan doctor yang saya nak gentle vba2c masa first appointment lagi.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 19.32px;">Ni sebenarnya more to prepare my husband. Pasal saya nak dia on the same page as me. Like many mamas here, saya memag register dan bayar sendiri senyap-senyap, pastu baru beritahu dia. Sebulan in advance saya dah beritahu husband suruh ambil cuti, siap buat google event semua. Bagi tau mak siap-siap minta tolong babysit anak-anak for 3 days pasal kami nak pergi kelas. No choice, kena pergi pasal dah bayar.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 19.32px;">Read the recommended books, baca segala kat <b><i>GBG, ICAN, Spinningbabies</i></b>. Saya baca Ina May, HypnoBirthing, dengan Amani book je sebenarnya. Tp baca banyak-banyak kali. Screenshot mana-mana yang penting dan WhatsApp pada husband. Tag husband di birth stories, share youtube links.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 19.32px;">Salah satu session utk release emotional baggage pasal my previous csects. Learn a lot from her.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 19.32px;">Session ni dibuat setiap bulan. Sila la join untuk belajar dari pengalaman ibu-ibu yang lain. Previous pregnancy saya ada join Gentle Birth workshop by her also.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 19.32px;">Ni pun must attend session kalau admins buat lagi. Pengalaman dari orang yang sudah berjaya VBAMC. Yang datang masa sharing ni pun akhirnya ramai dah berjaya capai VBAMC.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 19.32px;">Jaga pemakanan. Self explanatory kan? Less carb, more protein, cut down on processed food, less sugar. Saya minum RRLT dari week 20 pasal from my reading, fungsi dia utk tone uterurine muscle, bukan induce labor. Tp buat cair-cair je la, satu sachet tu guna 2 kali. Total 3 kotak saya minum. Saya tak makan habbatussauda pasal pernah baca dia boleh menyebabkan contractions. Lain-lain termasuklah VCO, EVOO, madu, kurma, folic acid, Neurogain,Vit C 1000mg, and B complex and EPO towards the end of pregnancy. Tapi sebelum ambil apa-apa supplement, sila la discuss dengan doctor masing-masing and do your own research. </span><span style="line-height: 19.32px;">Masa pregnant memang BP dan urine saya ok every month, tiada GDM, takde GBS.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Ada lagi sebenarnya yang saya tak sempat nak buat. Didn’t manage to try homeopathy and using essential oil. Dengan usaha dan ikhtiar serta doa yg tak putus-putus, akhirnya saya dapat juga water birth after 2 c-sect seperti yang diidam-idamkan.</span></div>
Hanz Jamaludinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15069250576483216563noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9090496891031674002.post-71606236157496040382015-10-05T17:43:00.002-07:002015-10-06T07:30:54.546-07:00Spontaneous Gentle Natural Birth In Hospital<div style="background-color: white; color: #141823; line-height: 17.94px; text-align: justify; white-space: pre-wrap;">
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Ibu memasang angan-angan nak waterbirth before kahwin lagi. Masa tu tau pasal waterbirth lepas tengok wife Sheikh Muzaffar bersalin method ni. (Waktu tu muda remaja lagi) Lepas dah kahwin, dan masa tu baru dapat tau pregnant, angan-angan untuk waterbirth masih lagi ibu pegang. Tapi tak tau apa-apa pasal gentlebirth ni. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">One day, Alhamdulillah Allah temukan ibu dengan birth story from a friend of mine. Dari situ ibu tau pasal gentle birth, Amani class dan HypnoBirthing class. Bila dah mencari-cari dan menggali ibu jumpa macam-macam group yang support natural birth dan gentle birth. Ibu korek-korek ilmu daripada situ. And then ambil keputusan untuk join kelas Amani selepas dah berbincang dengan Abi. Alhamdulillah Abi sangat mudah untuk terima dan join kelas ni bila ibu ajak. Tak banyak dalih terus je bersetuju. Thank you Abi~</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; line-height: 17.94px;">Ibu join kelas Amani dengan Sis Hanz. Masa tu ibu baru pregnant 12 weeks. Awal sangat...? I think itu masa yg paling sesuai. Dari sabah berkerja tu bukan senang nak dapat cuti balik Semenanjung. Dah ada cuti tu, ibu tak lepaskan peluang yang ada. Terus grab. Alhamdulillah dipermudahkan Allah untuk ibu. Mintak cuti awal sehari dari sekolah, settle payment dengan Sis hanz, dapat la join kelas Sis Hanz tu. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">MasyaAllah! Hebat anugerah Allah bagi pada tubuh badan kita ni. Baaaanyak ilmu yg kita tak tau kita tau asbab kelas amani ni. Waktu pregnant minggu ke 37 pulak, ibu ada terbaca pasal seminar HypnoBirthing dari page Kak Ayuni. Once again, ibu ajak abi join. As for me, itu persediaan akhir dan untuk refresh balik apa yang dah pernah kami belajar masa kelas Amani dulu walaupun content sebenarnya tidaklah sama. </span></div>
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<a name='more'></a><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">2 september 2015. Mucus plug keluar lepas ibu mandi pagi. Untuk confirmation, ibu google gambar mucus plug. Sama. Ibu teruskan life macam biasa. Excercise atas gymball. Squat. Sway. Pelvic rock. Tailor sitting. Mana-mana yang mampu buat ibu buat. Naik tangga turun tangga. Hari-hari ajak Abi pergi berjalan. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Malam 5 September. Lebih kurang 10.40 pm ibu solat Isyak. Perut ibu dah memulas-mulas. Ibu ingatkan memulas nak kentut. Hehe rupa-rupanya masa sujud terakhir, ada bunyi 'pop'. Ohho! My amniotic fluid dah keluar mencurah-curah tapi ibu teruskan juga solat sampai akhir salam. Telekung dan sejadah tu basah lencun jangan cakap la.... Ibu siap solat, ibu terus text Sis Hanz. Text jugak Kak Ayuni. Ibu beritahu condition ibu. Advise daripada both CBE ni sama. Disebabkan ibu belum ada rasa surges, so just pakai pad. Rehat. Gain energy. Keep hydrated. No surges, no baby. So, pergi tido jela. Abi pun play roles jugak. Air kelapa. Olive oil. Habbatussauda. Kurma. Air zamzam. Eo. Lilin. Semua Abi sediakan. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">3.30 am tersedar daripada tidur. Dah mula rasa surge. Try sambung tidur tapi tak boleh. Kejutkan Abi dan minta Abi pasang pool. Waktu ni tengok Abi bersungguh-sungguh isi air dalam pool ibu memang kasihan sangat pada abi. Ulang-alik masuk toilet. Isi dalam baldi. Tuang dalam pool. <span class="_1az _1a- _2gj" style="background-image: url(https://fbstatic-a.akamaihd.net/rsrc.php/v2/yp/r/aeO1ik7i7-T.png); background-position: 0px -5678px; background-repeat: no-repeat; background-size: auto; display: inline-block; height: 16px; margin: 0px 1px; vertical-align: top; width: 16px;"></span> Thanks sebab korbankan tidur Abi. Sementara Abi isi air dalam pool, ibu paksa diri tidur. Nak charge tenaga banyak-banyak. Kadang-kadang bila surge kuat sikit, ibu terjaga. Time-time terjaga, makan la kurma, minum air kelapa, air zamzam dan minyak zaitun. Semua ibu bedal. Hehe yg penting ibu xnak tenaga habis. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">6 am pool dah ready. Ngam-ngam tak banyak tak sikit airnya. Panas. Tak suam. Memang abi lebihkan panas supaya nanti senang abi adjust ikut keselasaan ibu. Abi kejutkan ibu tanya nak masuk pool sekarang ke. Ibu cakap not yet. Ibu solat subuh then sambung tidur lagi. Abi pun ibu suruh tidur juga. Next nanti banyak lagi perkara we both nak kena buat.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">9.40 am surges dah mula kuat. Ibu layan surges. Duduk atas gymball. Tapi tak lama. Ibu tak selesa atas gymball. Waktu ni sway adalah cara paling sesuai dengan ibu. Peluk Abi sambil sway. Ala-ala Romantika d Amor pulak kan. <span class="_1az _1a- _2fs" style="background-image: url(https://fbstatic-a.akamaihd.net/rsrc.php/v2/yp/r/aeO1ik7i7-T.png); background-position: 0px -5185px; background-repeat: no-repeat; background-size: auto; display: inline-block; height: 16px; margin: 0px 1px; vertical-align: top; width: 16px;"></span> but trust me, this method help me lots to control surges yang datang dan pergi itu. Time ni ibu sempat lagi pergi masak nasi. I thought nak masak lauk juga tapi tak mampu dah den!. So last-last ibu minta Abi belikan breakfast.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Ibu terjun pool dalam pukul 10.30 pagi. Layan surges. Abi duduk bersila di luar pool pegang tangan ibu. Gosok-gosok belakang ibu. Usap kepala ibu. Cakap-cakap dengan ibu. Main phone. Abi suapkan mee goreng sambil ibu layan surges. Masa makan ni ibu rasa surges setiap 20 minit sekali. Lama ibu dalam pool. Kadang-kadang ibu keluar pool sway kejap. Masuk pool balik. Kadang-kadang terlena dalam pool tu. Abi setia menemani walaupun kadang-kadang terkena marah dengan ibu sebab tanya soalan waktu surge datang. <span class="_1az _1a- _2ft" style="background-image: url(https://fbstatic-a.akamaihd.net/rsrc.php/v2/yp/r/aeO1ik7i7-T.png); background-position: 0px -5202px; background-repeat: no-repeat; background-size: auto; display: inline-block; height: 16px; margin: 0px 1px; vertical-align: top; width: 16px;"></span> I'm so sorry my dear hubby. Makin lama surges makin cepat. 15 minit sekali. 10 minit sekali. 8 minit sekali. 6 minit sekali. Ibu dalam pool sekejap squat. Sekejap kneeling. Sekejap All Four. Cari posisi yang selesa. Setiap kali surge datang, ibu vocalize. Buat breathing technique yg ibu belajar dalam kelas. Open jaw. Bayangkan baby nak keluar jumpa ibu dan abi. Semua ni sangat membantu ibu untuk control surges. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"> 3.40 pm tengah syok layan surges ibu rasa nak terberak sangat. Ibu keluar pool. Masuk toilet. Duduk atas toilet bowl tu tp tak keluar pun t**k. Ibu duduk cangkung pun tak keluar juga. Ibu keluar masuk toilet. Tak jadi nak masuk pool sebab rasa nk berak tu lagi kuat dari rasa surges. Ibu dah rasa nak mengamok. Ibu cakap ngan abi "Eei knapa la time-time camni pulak nak sembelitttt~". Bila cangkung t**k tak keluar. Tapi bila berdiri rasa nak meneran sangat-sangat. Pool terusku lupakan. Layan rasa nak berak je. Adoii. Abi dah mula risau bila tengok ibu macam tu. </span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 17.94px;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">4.00 pm Abi call Sis Hanz. Beritahu pasal ibu. Sis Hanz advise pergi hospital. Check dilate. At the same time Abi text jugak Kak Ayuni. Same advise. Pergi hospital check dilate. Kalau baru 2cm ke 3cm just mintak balik. Ibu pulak masih progress yang sama. Duduk dalam toilet. Bila berdiri je nak meneran. Then duduk balik. Owh ibu sudah mula tension sebab sembelit t**k tak keluar. Abi setia tunggu ibu depan pintu toilet sambil tersengguk-sengguk. I know he was super-duper tired. Kesian.</span></span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #141823; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; line-height: 17.94px; white-space: pre-wrap;">4.30 pm Abi buat keputusan bawak ibu pergi hospital. Kami ikut advise dua org CBE yang kami tanya. Pergi hospital just check dilate. Then balik. Luckily hospital dari rumah dekat. Sampai hospital terus masuk labour room untuk check dilate. Nurse bukak, then terus cakap "Eyh dah full dilate. Dah nampak rambut baby". I was like 'huh?? So kena beranak kat sini?? Arrrghh~'. Ibu terus pandang muka abi. Abi yang berdiri bertentangan dengan ibu muka bercahaya-cahaya sambil cakap "Sayang kita datang tepat pada masanya. Rambut baby dah nampak". Owh huwaaa tak sama pulak apa yang ibu fikir dengan apa yg Abi fikirkan </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Adoii drama apa pulak ni? Rasanya waktu tu ibu nak je ajak Abi balik. Mau saja ku sambung terjun dalam pool dan teruskan rasa nak meneran tu dalam pool. Huwaaaa kenapa la ibu tak tau rasa nak meneran berak sembelit tu sebenarnya tanda awak nak keluar sayangku Yusuf?. Ibu tengok jam 4.45 pm waktu tu. "Doc lambat lagi ke? Suruh cepat sikit". Few minutes, doc sampai. Ibu ingatkan doc lagi sekali macam dalam birthplan, "Doc, sy tak nak epi ye". Doc just angguk. Setelah berusaha beberapa kali, tepat 5.12 pm lahirlah penyejuk hati ibu abi. Alhamdulillah. Lega tersangat lega. Abi terus cakap "skin to skin please". And yes, kami skin to skin dengan vernix masih melekat di badan baby. Terus breastfeed baby waktu tu. Uri keluar, ibu mintak doc utk delay cord clamping. Dcc sekejap then doc cakap dah pucat. Terus dia potong. </span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #141823; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; line-height: 17.94px; text-align: justify; white-space: pre-wrap;">Secara jujurnya saya tidak mengambil ubatpubat yang disediakan pihak KKIA (3 jenis) tapi saya gantikannya dari sumber alami. Vit C, folate, iron semua dari real food. Pada minggu ke30 saya mula tinggal bersama suami (sebelumnya kami PJJ ats sebab saya bkerja di Sabah dan dia di Semenanjung). Dari situ pemakanan saya lebih teratur dan dijaga sebaiknya oleh suami. Kami gantikan gula putih dgn organic brown sugar. Garam laut kepad garam himalaya. Guna olive oil utk memasak. Ayam organic. Avoid all process food (saya mmg jenis orang yang tak makan process food dan fast food). Suami selalu buatkan jus untuk saya. Banana milk, almond milk, green juice. Bayam dan brokoli merupakan sayuran wajib utk sy setiap hari. Buah either orange or plum juga wajib saya makan. Suami akan 'paksa' saya makan kurma paling kurang 7 biji sehari (pernah kena dera makan 15 biji sekali hadap </span><span class="_1az _1a- _2ft" style="background-color: white; background-image: url(https://fbstatic-a.akamaihd.net/rsrc.php/v2/yp/r/aeO1ik7i7-T.png); background-position: 0px -5202px; background-repeat: no-repeat; background-size: auto; color: #141823; display: inline-block; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; height: 16px; line-height: 17.94px; margin: 0px 1px; text-align: justify; vertical-align: top; white-space: pre-wrap; width: 16px;"></span><span style="background-color: white; color: #141823; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; line-height: 17.94px; text-align: justify; white-space: pre-wrap;">).</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Saya checkup seperti biasa di KKIA. Terima dan pantau kesihatan diri dan baby dari situ. Minggu-36 saya ke hospital. Deal degan Doc Khairiah untuk bersalin di sana (ini merupakan Plan B yang saya dan suami ambil). Setelah setiap appointment dan checkup, saya pastikan kandungan saya low risk. Maka kami betul-betul tekad dengan keputusan kami untuk homebirth. Semuanya berjalan seperti yg dirancang sampailah part terasa nk berak sembelit tu. Kikiki 😅. So terjadilah cerita Yusuf Rifai bersalin di hospital seperti Plan B kami... </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Kita merancang dengan cita-cita. Allah merancang dengan cintaNya. Allah lebih mengetahui apa yg terbaik untuk hambaNya. Homewaterbirth, insyaAllah next baby kita cuba lagi. <span class="_1az _1a- _2fs" style="background-image: url(https://fbstatic-a.akamaihd.net/rsrc.php/v2/yp/r/aeO1ik7i7-T.png); background-position: 0px -5185px; background-repeat: no-repeat; background-size: auto; display: inline-block; height: 16px; margin: 0px 1px; vertical-align: top; width: 16px;"></span> Apa yg penting, ibu tetap dapat rasa gentlebirth utk ank sulung ibu ni. Alhamdulillah. Thank you Allah. </span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">It took me quite some time before I made
the decision to share this story – OUR BIRTH STORY – to the world. Most
probably due to the fear that people might take our childbirth as a “simple”
and doable act, and wanting to do it blindly. Please, DON’T! So please
understand the steps we have taken as a couple as you read our story to welcome
our princess as gentlest as possible. All of this happen simply because, “Kun
Fayakun”, “Be and it is!”. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">All praises to Allah, for He is the
All-Knowing. May the sharing of this story will be an eye-opener to the vast
knowledge of physiological birth to all readers out there, insyaAllah. And as
the story-teller itself, let this tiny knowledge sharing be void of riaq,
taqbur and ‘ujub. Again, He is The All-Knowing. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Our first experience with pregnancy has been quite simple and was a typical
hospital birth. Although I have been introduced to gentle birth and have been
reading almost all the knowledge shared in the group. BUT, I was still not very
well equipped with knowledge about; 1. Epidural and its possible risks and
effects and oh c’mon.. Epidural, an equivalent to a pain-free birth, is
naturally very enticing to a mother in painful, active labour. 2. I was not
strong enough to say NO! to episiotomy that is against my knowledge and consent
. And 3. I was also charged for a vacuum procedure (a friggin RM750!!) that was
not even done to me. I felt like I was a failure. Like I was not a good enough
mother for awhile there. You know, like why can’t I deliver like atuk nenek
dulu? No pain-meds so powerful like that? Why am I so lembik? Yada yada yada. Oh
well, I forgive myself now.</span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Fast forward, we were again blessed with
our second pregnancy. This time, I didn’t want to repeat the same mistake of my
ignorance and mousy-ness. I want to have a memorable birth, better
breastfeeding start (baby free from the effect of any pain meds etc) and we
will try as best we can to make it work! So we attended AMANI Birth class. Big
shout out to my CBE teacher: Thank you so much Hanz! The class was worth it and
we could not have done it without you! My husband was even more confident about
birth that he himself said, “Kalau macam ni, Baba pun boleh sambut baby!” and I
laughed it off with a nervous smile. Little did he know the effect of his
words. Ehehe… <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">We also took care of our diet and fitness.
I took a lot of natural food, sunnah food ie. Dates, raisins, honey and ate lesser
junk/fast food. Kadang-kadang makan juga KFC. Hehe. But true enough, that gave
me better reading of my hB than the pills. I was also fitter! I took brisk
walking seriously towards the end of my trimester. Those who knew me will know
how “un-fit” I was when it comes to anything related to sports. But for this
pregnancy, Alhamdulillah… I managed to complete one month of Ramadhan fasting,
all the while walking, and climbing up and down the third floor for all my
three classes, which is located in different buildings, all over the school, DAILY!
Round kampong sehari 3 kali setiap pagi ok kawan-kawan? I was not like this
during my first so yeah, that is BIG! At least for me lah.. Give me a break ok
fellas? ;P<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">36 Weeks : Went for usual monthly check ups
with the doctors. Scan, scan, oh baby is oblique (diagonal)/breech. I was
referred to a specialist the same day. So off I went (and got lost that took me
almost 2 hours just to get to the hospital). Scan again, confirmed we have a
breech. Unstable lie, which mean, kejap senget, kejap tegak, closer to heart,
gitu. Hee.. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">1<sup>st</sup> doctor: Puan kena admit.
Kita nak scan hari-hari. Kalau continuous breech, by 38<sup>th</sup> weeks kita
perform LSCS (pucat lesi dah time ni! Cesarean was the last thing on my mind!). By 38 weeks baby dah matang. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Me: Eh tapi saya ada history overdue. Tak
boleh ke kita tunggu at least 40 weeks? Rugi perkembangan otak dan peparu baby.
I know 38 weeks dah matang tapi sayanglah, masa tu perkembangan paling rapid. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">The answer is still NO. So I was admitted.
Takpelah. Then upstairs, I met a second doctor, I quickly minta discaj. She was
confused a bit. Peliklah this mother.. Hehe.. But she was nice, really!<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">2<sup>nd</sup> doctor: Hmm. Ok, macam ni,
we will admit you then perform scan regularly for three(3!!) days. Once baby
cephalic, we will induce by rupturing your membrane. Kalau still breech then I
perform ECV, which is 50/50 percent of success.
Also, if baby persistently unstable lie, suka pusing-pusing, then only
we perform a c-section. (Bless her, she was so nice to explain it this far to
me. Maybe I look too nervous sampai nak cabut lari terus!)<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">But I was adamant. I said, baby is small
kan doctor (she said it herself) maybe that’s why dia boleh pusing-pusing lagi.
Plus three days is a little too short a chance for my baby. I’m at 36 weeks. We
have 4 weeks versus 3 days. Don’t you think it’s a little unfair? With my past
overdue history, my baby could be a premiee should we proceed with induced
labour at 38 weeks. Second pregnancy also means my uterus dah “longgar” so
cannot grip the baby (she also said it herself) kan? Hehe. I promise will
continue to monitor the baby everyday. Pleaseeeee.. Gelak nervous. Finally the
doctor laughed at my stubbornness and let me go. Phew.. Kalau tak, 3 hari
sebelum raya dah pantang dah..erk! <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Then, 2<sup>nd</sup> day of raya, at my 38<sup>th</sup>
weeks, I met my 3<sup>rd</sup> doctor;<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">She was quite senior and as she was
scanning my tummy, she motherly said, <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">“Oh, second time mother memang biasalah tu
baby tak masuk laluan lagi. Memang dia boleh pusing-pusing lagi sebab rahim dah
meregang.. Jangan risau, selagi you are not in labour, selagi tu dia boleh
berpusing. Pujuk-pujuklah dia supaya masuk laluan elok-elok. Even labour itself
is a process to position the baby properly. Lainlah kalau dah takdir memang dia
nak juga breech. Even kalau breech pun, still possible for a normal vaginal
birth but it was no longer practiced in the hospital. It was a lost art.
Anyway, see this round shape? It’s the head. Your baby IS head down. Everything
is good. Alhamdulillah. Si kakak ni umur berapa tahun? Becoknyaa..bla bla bla..”<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Again, syukur alhamdulillah. Lega sekali
lagi. And baby remained cephalic, head down following check ups, up until
birth. One of the best decisions made so far. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Oh what I did to encourage baby to be in
this position? I went to seek advises from my AMANI CBE, Hanz told me to study
spinningbabies.com website’s instruction like Forward Leaning Inversions (FLI)
especially, 10 seconds leaning heads down, twice a day, squat more, walk even
more, prolonged sujud (ambil peluang berdoa banyak-banyak masa ni),gently
swaying my hips on my gymball whenever I felt the baby’s hiccups is down below
(konon-konon supaya dapat grab kepala baby masuk laluan laa..haha!) I even met
an osteopath to get checked up if my body is the one causing my baby to behave
like that..hehe. I’ve got nothing to lose by trying all this methods. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">I even met three different doctors (not
including two I’ve met previously) that are willing to accept a normal (if
possible) breech delivery. None found. But by then, I was no longer worried of
my baby’s position. I wanted to keep calm and continue enjoying my last
trimester happily. Risau tu ada juga but hey, I know I’ve studied my brain dry
and I’ve tried every method possible for the sake of my baby to have a normal
birth. Jika ditakdirkan breech and we need a cesarean, I know I have tried my
best and I won’t regret it. Pentingnya faham dan terima qada’ dan qadar Allah
selepas berusaha sedaya upaya. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">But---- My baby have her own mind. Hehe. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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driving to school, tummy almost touching the steering wheel. Annoying okay? At
41 weeks, I was still climbing the stairs up and down that sometimes, I
purposely avoid stairs with incoming teachers to avoid the same repetitive
questions and the same repetitive answer. Bubs is not gonna stay inside
forever, yes?<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Well-meaning friends and relatives were
getting worried as I was past due but looked as if I was in my early third
trimester. Maybe the walking-every-morning routine was the culprit? My klinik
desa’s nurse/friend was getting nervous as well. But I just smiled and promised
to monitor baby’s movement as close as possible and wait for the baby to come
out when she wanted to. “WHO recognized 42 weeks as not overdue, just
post-date. Hehe.” I remember saying this to my nurse-friend. Member geleng
kepala je la. Degil sungguh cikgu sorang ni.. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><b><i>14 August 2015</i></b> – Very mild cramping. Not
painful at all. Went for karaoke after dinner with our little family. Nawwar tertidur lepas nyanyi lagu dia,
Twinkle,Twinkle Little Star. Haah, memang ada lagu tu dalam playlist. The
cramping stopped and I carried her down back to the parking lot. Heavy lifting
on purpose konon nak start balik contraction tapi tak juga. Acah je la tu.
Balik rumah prepared underpad on our bed, in case of any leaks but still, none.
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><b><i>15 August 2015</i></b> – Started having mild irregular
surges! Yey! Finally! Sempat pergi midnight movie-date with darling hubs at
Setia City Mall en route back to Kampung Kuala. Nawwar was transferred to her
tokwans beforehand. Tengok Tom Cruise tembak-tembak orang sambil tekan
start/pause button kat contraction timer app. Balik rumah, tidur jelah. I
instinctively know it will be quite some time before it will get regular. Husband
kepoh a bit but bearable, like the irregular surges. Hehe. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><b><i>16<sup>th</sup> August 2015</i></b> – Went
hill-hiking at Bukit Malawati, Kuala Selangor. It has been awhile since we have
our date without our bouncy bunny Nawwar so I think oxytocin may have played
its part here. ;) By then, I’ve already texted my AMANI classmates about my
progress. Surges came if I was mobile hence the more walking and hiking. Wow,
tinggi jugalah Bukit Malawati tu. Stopped at certain points for squatting and
stretching, and deep breathing. All husband-led coach. Untung isteri cikgu PJ.
;) Turun bukit, pekena roti canai Hamzah. Last time rasa teh ais. Balik rumah
in-law pekena nasi dagang. Memang cucu tok Terengganu la ni. Kenapa ya? Read
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wanted to give birth at a nearby GH. So by evening, the surges are getting
regular, so I prayed and asked to have my surges to get regular after I have
completed my Isya’ prayer. My prayers
were granted and by 9pm, the surges were getting intense but still bearable.Yeah,
STILL BEARABLE believe me I do. I
started swaying my hips standing, on my gymball and walking around the living
room. My mother in-law noted that I looked uncomfortable. Not really Mama, I
said. I am ok. I just need to keep moving. So I swayed and rocked my hips on my
gymball. My in-laws were pretty much relaxed and let me be me as I layan my
surges. What blessing. My husband was playing his football manager, layan me time
to time with continuous supply of warm water and hot milo then as he left to go
watch his football match, I proceeded to layan my surges inside our room
quietly. I didn’t mind since I surges were okay and I did not want him to
worry. I switched off the lights and lay down wanting to sleep or rest
in-between surges. Tak best. Being immobile really makes the surges from bearable
into painful. Plus if I sleep, no one to push the start/stop on my contraction
timer app and the interval went off! Heheh. So I got up. Time passed, just as
my husband’s finished watching his football match, he helped me with my
breathing with every surge. I keep on visualizing rosebud blooming, while I
held on to him for support. It felt really sweet, to be supported during this
moment of my life. I went to the toilet frequently to empty my bladder to help
ease the descend of the baby. Then during this visit, I notice yet another urge
to pass motion so I thought, ‘Oh ada lagi belum lepas kot?’ so I pushed
casually, not really thinking but nothing came out. It felt like constipation.
Then I saw little streaks of blood. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">“Oh maybe it’s time! Jom baba let’s go!”
THEN my husband started to get really panicked. Mana taknya, time tu lah nak
tukar seluar. Dari tadi tanak pakai seluaq siap-siap! Dalam hati ni masih
sempat nak membebel sebab masa tahan contractions tu memang dah terdetik dah,
mamat ni rilek je berpelikat. Then he went to wake my in-law to tell them that
we’re going. I was slowly swaying and the surges were getting intense and
closely apart. Like, every few steps, I have to stop and breathe. Sempat ni..
Hospital is nearby. Yeah right.. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">(Note: This moment I clearly remembered my
husband asking, eh how about your underwear? I said, “Let it be! Sooner or
later we are going to take it off anyway! CEPATLAAHHHH!!” Hahah! It is true
that as you get closer to birth, there gone your modesty. Hehe.)<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">I was waiting for my husband at the hall
when I distinctly felt the head drop down. “Uh’oh! Oh no no no!” and I fell to
the floor, half kneeling beside the sofa. My mother in-law came out of the
room, sleepy and shocked to see me there. I can’t barely said anything other
than “Tak sempat tak sempat tak sempat!”. Bless her, she quickly massaged my
back softly, at the same time shouted for my husband to come back in. I loudly
called my husband saying,”The he baby is coming Baba!” since I can clearly felt
the famous Ring of Fire. This time, I got kind of pasrah already. Ok, we’re
gonna give birth here,so be it! Husband calmly wait and as I loudly push (yes,
loud. How embarrassing!) like I was scolding the whole school. I think I’m that
mom who push, not breathe the baby out. But I was careful to make sure I
breathe out as I push as I don’t want to restrict any oxygen to the baby, hence
the loud vocal. One push, head’s out! Alhamdulillah.. While waiting for the
next surge, I managed to relaxed a bit. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">“Mama, kepala baby dalam tangan Baba tau
ni? Hehe!”<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">“Really? Haha! Eh wait, what’s the colour?
Is she red or blue?”<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">“Red!”<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">“Is it? Haha! Alhamdulillah.. Oh, Mama,
sorry I ruined your carpet! Oh wait, another one coming!”<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">A couple more pushes and WHOOSSH! The whole
body was out, Alhamdulillah. All praises to Allah.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">The whole house was awake by then . I was
just so relieved. And sooooooo happy! I was NOT tired. Not at all. I just felt
so weirded out with the sudden lost of my heavy tummy. It felt so light since I
was still half-kneeling beside the sofa. Realizing my aching knee, I asked my
husband to help me turn my back. I was afraid I might tripped over the cord
-still beautifully blue! So I turned slowly and took the baby to my chest. She
was pink, so clean, and no vernix! Tsk.. I really wanted to see and feel how
vernix would feel on my hands. Her eyes was so wide. Calm and alert. I tried to
breastfeed her but she wasn’t so eager to latch immediately so I didn’t push.
We just enjoyed the moment, me and my husband. WE DID IT! Allah is The
Almighty! SubhanAllah..<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">As we were busy birthing, my mother in-law
managed to call our neighbor, Dr. Azam, to help and assist with the delivery.
He came just as the head was out so he let my husband to continue to catch the
baby. He was so nervous he was sweating buckets in his pelikat and singlets! He
was wondering whether we should cut the cord or not. Me being me, I said no and
my husband cleverly suggested us to just wait for the ambulance since we do not
have any sterile equipment to do it. Hehe. So we did get our delayed-cord
clamping eventually! Cheeky, I know! Hehe. Dr. Azam then requested to talk to
the Labor Room doctors for further steps while waiting for the ambulance (which
took 40 minutes to arrive that was well spent with family selfies! Ha!) so he
came back and slapped baby’s foot to let her cry (which is actually unnecessary
since she’s already breastfeeding/looking around intently by that time) and
tied her white limp cord with a nylon, following standard procedures. My
husband and I just smiled and tried to look fairly decent with all that mess. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Alhamdulillah, all praises to Allah, The
ONE and ONLY. He led us to His knowledge about physiological birth, the rizq to
attend the class and the calmness to accept the whole delivery-at-home drama.
He also granted my duas that I prayed hard day and night;<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">“Ya Allah, keluarkanlah dia dari perutku
dengan mudah dan selamat”<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">“Ya Allah, rezekikan aku nikmat kelahiran
mengikut fitrahMu”<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">“Ya Allah, tenangkanlah hati kami,
bukakanlah hati kami dan permudahkanlah urusan kami dalam menerima kehadiran
amanahMu ini”<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">“Ya Allah, lindungilah auratku, lindungilah
aibku dan hadirkanlah disisi kami, insan-insan yang ikhlas membantu kami dalam
urusan kelahiranku ini”<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Granted, Dr. Azam is a male doctor tapi
inilah yang kita panggil darurat dan kami sedar kemungkinan-kemungkinan yang
boleh berlaku dengan unassisted childbirth, dan kehadiran dan bantuan Dr. Azam
kami redha dalam keadaan ketika itu dan amatlah kami hargai. Allah Maha
Mengetahui hikmah disetiap kejadian. Bukan setakat suami je teman, the whole
family was there! So much love, mashaAllah.. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Anyway, that was it. My super-long birth
story. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">When asked, “Mudahnya bersalin! Tak takut
ke? Tak sakit ke?”<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">My reply will be, <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">No. I honestly did not know which part that
they meant as “senang” or “easy” because it took us from the moment we saw that
double pink lines, that we knew of the baby’s arrival, to prepare ourselves to
give her the gentlest birth possible. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Scared? Birth is not scary. Are you scared
to breathe? Birth is as normal as breathing, provided we know how to breathe
properly. That is where knowledge comes. So dig up. Learn and learn and learn.
And try your best as the time comes and leave the rest to Allah. Again, it is
not easy, but it is possible. Allah is not a careless creator. He is the BEST
creator. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Sakit? Tipulah tak sakit. Sakit! But,
despite all the mess I’ve made on the carpets, the towels and the chaos erupted
in the living room at 2am in the morning, all the love I felt from my husband,
the reassurance I receive from my mother in-law, and the concerned look from my
father in-law (whom I later learned, cried silently as I deliver) overpowered
all feelings of pain. SubhanAllah..<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">I know I can do this, I am safe and I’m in
good hands. So does my husband, my best companion, my other half and of course,
my baby, Nawraa Amana. WE DID IT! Weee!<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Alhamdulillah for the thousandth time. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">;)<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Ps. Happy 1 month old baby bear!</span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 19.3199996948242px;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">- A natural, non-medicated and no pushing required birth -</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">This pregnancy, I had an awful first trimester with nasty morning sickness and no appetite to eat at all. In fact, by the time I gave birth, I weigh only 2kg more than my pre-pregnancy weight! Apart from being diagnosed with GDM again (but doing fine with the BSP monitoring), I had an easier time once the nausea and vomiting phase was over. My doctor wasn't concerned with my lack of weight gain, "As long as your baby is growing, I am ok. Easier for u to lose weight also later", he joked.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 19.3199996948242px;">Ok, fast forward to the birth itself. This story started weeks prior to the actual birth. As with my firstborn, I have been experiencing prodormal labor since the 38th week and with the tell tale sign, a ginormous nose! LOL! I had been bargaining with baby not to come until Thursday (13/08) because of so many things and work-related stuffs I need to settle before going for maternity leave. The next day went for my final ante natal check (birth plan discussed, agreed and signed by my doctor during the previous check up. Among things I requested in my birth plan:</span><span style="line-height: 19.3199996948242px;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 19.3199996948242px;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">1. Freedom to move during labor,</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 19.3199996948242px;">2. no continuous monitoring unless absolutely necessary and with consent,</span><span style="line-height: 19.3199996948242px;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 19.3199996948242px;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">3. no episiotomies,</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 19.3199996948242px;">4. food and drink during labour,</span><span style="line-height: 19.3199996948242px;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 19.3199996948242px;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">5. birth in any position I am comfortable in</span></span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 19.3199996948242px;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">6. No pain relief, do not bug me about pain relief</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 19.3199996948242px;">7. Delayed cord clamping</span><span style="line-height: 19.3199996948242px;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 19.3199996948242px;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">8. Skin to skin contact and bonding</span></span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 19.3199996948242px;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">9. Breastfeeding initiation at birth</span></span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 19.3199996948242px;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">10. Baby rooming in with mommy</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">After the ante natal appointment, as I was walking back to my living quarters, my colleague who is a seasoned daddy of 5, told me, "I beri you masa 3 hari je lagi. I nampak perut u dah turun sgt". Wow! Impressive! I thought. "We'll see if your prediction is right", I replied. Haha...</span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 19.3199996948242px;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Sunday (16/8)</span></span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 19.3199996948242px;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">We went out for family lunch outside and spent the day sightseeing. On the way back, we passed by a couple of stalls selling durians, I wanted to stop but one of my niece couldn't stand the smell of durians. So that evening, I went on a durian hunt with my niece. The durian seller joked that maybe I will give birth after having the durians. Lol!</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Mission accomplished! I enjoyed eating the durians (I had maybe 5 slices, my mom told me not to eat too much, and she watched me like a hawk!). That night, I went to bed telling baby, if it's time, don't give mummy subtle signs. Mummy is a bit bebal. Lol!</span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 19.3199996948242px;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Monday (17/8)</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 19.3199996948242px;">I woke up at about 2.50am by strong squeezing sensations that started from my back and wrapped to the front. Realizing that this time it felt different than the usual Braxton Hicks and the fact that it was able to JOLT me awake made me start to time it. 8 minutes apart, then 6, then 5. I realized, this could be it!</span><span style="line-height: 19.3199996948242px;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 19.3199996948242px;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">So I woke up my dad and asked him to send me to the hospital just to check. While waiting for dad and mom to get ready, I had my breakfast (soft boiled eggs and coffee).</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">We reached the hospital by 5.15am and I was referred to the Labor & Delivery unit for observation. CTG showed regular contractions albeit rather mild and VE showed I was about 3cm dilated. So I was admitted.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">After settling some paperwork for admission, we settled in my assigned room. Those who know my mom would know that mom would be a nervous wreck when it comes to childbirth, so I stayed calm and relaxed even during contractions because I didn't want mom to panic. I had breakfast (again!), peed, pooped and moved around. By 9am, my doctor examined me and by then I was about 4cm dilated. Just as he was to perform the VE, my waterbag burst.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">I asked to be allowed to go to my room to eat and shower. Looking back, I guess when I was showering, I must have been about 5cm dilated. The hot shower really helped! I went back to the delivery suite at 11am when I started feeling like I want to vomit. Knowing it as a sign that I am progressing and nearing transition, I was happy and stayed upright. I walked, I swayed my hips and i went to the toilet when I told the nurse, "oops, i feel like i have the urge to poop". She examined me again and i was 6cm! So, i stayed in the room and kept vomiting. I was standing and holding the edge of the bed when I started feeling intense urge to poop. I informed the midwife and she rushed to assist me to go on the bed. By this time the contractions were almost continuous with only a brief pause in between. I was fully dilated! She paged my doctor and at that time, lying sideways was the ONLY position 'comfortable' for me (comfortable as in I don't feel as if my tailbone was going to explode!). When my doctor came, the nurse asked me if i want to change position I can do so when I don't feel pain. I shot back, "the pain is continuous la! Mana ada x sakit. I don't want to move!" (mak beruang persona dah tunjuk taring, lol!).</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">At this moment I can feel 'something' bulging out and sliding back in a few times. I wasn't pushing. I was just breathing long and deep breaths and keeping my jaws and limbs relaxed. Then just as my doctor turned, I lifted one leg and out came my baby. Swoosh! No forceful pushing involved at all!</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">They put baby on my chest and we had our skin to skin. My doctor waited until the cord stopped pulsating (it was white and pale) when he cuts it. The placenta was delivered soon after and my doctor examined me and informed I need a few stitches but not to worry as the tears were only on the skin layer. I guess the stitchings hurt more than the birth. Haha... Natural tears heal faster than episiotomies, that's the truth!</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 19.3199996948242px;">We had our skin to skin and breastfeeding initiation. The awesome birth team left us to bond for at least two hours! I only went back to my room at almost 3pm! They really honoured my birth plan and request.</span><span style="line-height: 19.3199996948242px;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 19.3199996948242px;">Praises be to God, the Creator of the human body.</span><span style="line-height: 19.3199996948242px;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 19.3199996948242px;">Thanks to our family and friends for support and prayers.</span><span style="line-height: 19.3199996948242px;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 19.3199996948242px;">Thanks also to the wonderful midwives and nurses of BMC's Labour and Delivery Dept.</span><span style="line-height: 19.3199996948242px;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 19.3199996948242px;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Thanks also to our awesome doctor, Dr Phillip Kho for his awesome care and respecting my birth plan and wishes.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 19.3199996948242px;">Tagging</span><span style="line-height: 19.3199996948242px;"> </span><a class="profileLink" data-hovercard="/ajax/hovercard/user.php?id=529869040&extragetparams=%7B%22directed_target_id%22%3A60608451197%7D" href="https://www.facebook.com/nadine.ghows" style="color: #3b5998; cursor: pointer; line-height: 19.3199996948242px; text-decoration: none;">Nadine Ghows</a><span style="line-height: 19.3199996948242px;">,</span><span style="line-height: 19.3199996948242px;"> </span><a class="profileLink" data-hovercard="/ajax/hovercard/user.php?id=1654585934&extragetparams=%7B%22directed_target_id%22%3A60608451197%7D" href="https://www.facebook.com/HanzJamaludin" style="color: #3b5998; cursor: pointer; line-height: 19.3199996948242px; text-decoration: none;">Hanz TheHoneybunch</a></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 19.3199996948242px;">1. Stay active, practice healthy habits.</span><span style="line-height: 19.3199996948242px;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 19.3199996948242px;">3. Avoid anxiety. Don't overthink things. I don't overthink about how i birth, just place hope and faith in this God-given body of mine.</span><span style="line-height: 19.3199996948242px;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 19.3199996948242px;">4. I tried prenatal yoga. Was able to attend only one class but my instructor is a gem! The relaxation and breathing exercises are good!</span><span style="line-height: 19.3199996948242px;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 19.3199996948242px;">5. Keep lips, jaws and limbs relaxed during labor.</span><span style="line-height: 19.3199996948242px;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 19.3199996948242px;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">6. Stay upright and mobile as much as possible during labor. I am now known as the lady who was still standing at 10cm!</span></span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 19.3199996948242px;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">7. When writing your birth plan, be concise and know what you want. A good careprovider will be open to honour your requests when he knows that u know what and wh</span><span style="font-family: "helvetica" , "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">y you want the things on your list.</span></span></div>
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First of all, thanks to Allah yang sentiasa bersama hambaNya dan melindungi setiap hambaNya. </div>
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<span style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">Pada trimester ke-3, raspberry leaf tea menjadi minuman wajib </span><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">hari2. Dalam masa yang sama, saya banyakkan senaman walaupun ada kalanya culas. Makanan </span><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">harian biasanya makanan yg orang melayu ambil la. Hehehe nasi lemak, roti canai, bihun grg, nasi </span><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">campur, buah2an, etc.</span></span></div>
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Sejak raya kedua (18/7/15), saya dah mula cirit birit. Sangkaan saya mungkin sebab salah makan pada hari raya pertama, maklumlah ada rendang, lemang, ketupat etc. Tetapi cirit birit berlarutan hingga ke 30/7/15 (sehari sebelum bersalin). Ok, saya start msg hanz, my CBE, she did tell that cirit birit is one of the early sign of labour, but it could be due to hari raya punya makan. Hehehe.</div>
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<span style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">30/7/15 I msg hanz informed her ada lendir keluar while was bathing. It was whitish pada mulanya, </span><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">then ada lendir keluar. Hanz asked sakit tak, I told her tak sakit. It was colourless (a bit brownish). </span><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">Pada petang tu, I asked hubby to buy me air kelapa. It was last air kelapa I minum hehehe.</span></span></div>
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31/7/15 I feel sakit balik. Minta hubby jangan ke office as I really need him and asked his favour to send our daughter to babysitter’s house alone. At 12pm, i did a bit exercise and do ‘natural inducer’. Hehehe. With hubby’s help. After hubby came back from solat jumaat, surges dah start. A bit strong. I checked, it was 10 minutes gap. I told hubby, let’s get ready, I feel the surges already. It was 3pm. I called my sister, asked her to pick up daughter. Then siap2 barang2 utk ke hospital. At the same time, I sempat siapkan parcel utk pengeposan. Huuhuhu. After took lunch, terus ke pejabat pos settlekan pengeposan barang customer. Then straight heading to Hospital Serdang. On the way, I msg hanz and my Amani classmate group to inform I was on the way to hosp. Surges was 5:1:1.</div>
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<span style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">Sebaik sampai di dewan bersalin Hosp Serdang, register terus. 5 mins after that, my named had been </span><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">called. Bacaan tekanan darah di ambil and terus ke toilet untuk ambil urine. A while after that, doc </span><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">asked me to lie on the bed for ctg. More than 1 hour, I tak leh tahan dah dgn ctg tu cause I start rasa </span><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">sakit belakang. Sakit belakang ni memang dah bertahun rasanya. Requested politely to the nurse and </span><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">doc that I nak stop ctg. Initially doc declined my request cause dia ckp ctg tu penting, but I keep </span></span></div>
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stressing to him (male doc) that I rasa sakit sangat kt bahagian belakang. I really wanted the ctg to be stopped. Doc reconsidered and asked another 10 mins then they would stop it. Ok I was fine with it. Ctg done. I proceeded to rest at waiting area in the dewan bersalin. While sit there, I felt the surges became strong. Each time surges datang, sakit kat belakang juga kuat. So I decided to have a walk while listening to my fav song in youtube. Guess what? I watched Muse concert. Hahaha. Cause I like Muse songs so much. Rock pun rock la. Janji I boleh relaks sikit. Hahaha. But relaks tak berpanjangan, masa tengah berdiri kat sofa suddenly, a sound ‘pop’ came out. My water has broken. </div>
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Another mom sitting near the sofa, helped to inform the nurse that my water dah pecah. Nurse asked me to lie on the bed again, doc wanted to do VE. After tukar baju and pad, I lied on the bed. Doc did the VE. Doc mentioned it was 6cm dilated. On the spot, doc instructed nurses to push me to LR. It was 7.30pm. Once sampai kt LR with hubby beside, the surges became more strong. Allah… I was a bit panic. Muka pun jadi stress. Doc and nurses left us alone. Hubby kept trying to calm me. Then I realised I must over calm the stress. I risau lambat fully dilated. Aishhh.. </div>
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<span style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">Nurse datang to check me, and remind me to baca ayat2 Al-Quran yang I ingat, termasuk mengucap </span><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">2 kalimah syahadah juga. Hubby keep supported me and rub my back. While waiting in the LR, </span><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">actually nurse dah pasang CTG semula. I jadi lg macam nak marah. Cause I tak suka ctg. Hahaha. I t</span><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">anya nurse, berapa lama ctg ni. She said, ctg akan dipasang sehingga baby keluar. I was like??? </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">Huh… gila la mcam ni. Ok takpe. We’ll see how. Then a female doc came to check me. She did the </span><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">VE. Again, it was 6cm dilated. Before she left us, I cakap I tak mahu CTG ni. She declined my request </span><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">as she said it was hospital standard procedure. Then I realised, I must use this opportunity to swap </span><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif; font-size: small;">with my deal. Hahaha.</span></span></div>
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I cakap, ok, I boleh accept ctg but I want 3 things, please consider. Muka doc tu terkejut. (mesti dalam hati dia, eh eh nak apa plak patient ni). Hahaha. I said, I want DCC until it stop pulsating, skin to skin and breastfeed within 30mins or as fast as it can. Doc tercengang, then another docs came in, perhaps her boss la. They were discussing about my request. Luckily, they said, Ok puan tak jadi masalah. Fuhhh I Tarik nafas lega. Lega la sgt, masa tu surges memang kuat gila. Rasa nk marah je. </div>
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They left us again. For a few hours juga la. Within the time, the surges came were super duper strong. I did deep breathing. At 10pm++, each time surges datang, sakit belakang menjadi2. With deep breathing, sometimes I can overcome sakit tu, but bila dah lama2, badan I akan menggigil. But I still try my best until when I feel baby head dh dekat macam nak keluar, I seakan tak mampu nak bantu baby. Many times attempted but still baby head tak Nampak lagi. </div>
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Moreover, I got no induce, no episiotomy, no ubat tahan sakit also and no epidural (yeayyyyyyy). </div>
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Syukur sangat2. I noticed vernix pada badan my son clear. He also tak kena jaundice.</div>
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<span style="line-height: 19.3199996948242px;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Layan contraction sambil jaga budak dalam kelas. Sekejap datang sekejap pergi. Tak tetap. Siap rekod tapi memang tak regular sakitnya. Sampai la tengahari. Waktu rehat sempat tidur lagi. Belum habis waktu rehat sakitnya macam dah setiap 30min. 2.30ptg Pergi la ke pejabat isi borang kebenaran meninggalkan pejabat. Yang paling tak boleh tahan masa isi borang sakit kuat datang tiba-tiba entah tulis apa dalam borang. Bila baca semula kelakar pun ada alasan " pergi ke hospital (sakit utk bersalin) " errr lantak la guru besar pun tak ada dalam bilik dia. Main letak je borang atas meja dia.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Lepas tu baru ler call suami yang memang ada kat rumah bercuti lagi sebab nak uruskan abang sekolah, taska tempat dia transit masih tutup cuti raya. Lama pulak tu dia nak sampai 3.30 petang kot dia baru sampai. Sakit makin kuat. Perut lapar. Ajak ler pergi makan dulu. Suami ingat nak tapau je aku buat muka confident eh! Boleh lagi ni makan kat sini hehe. Sambil makan sambil layan sakit. Masa ni la baru terfikir pasal anak-anak. Kena jemput abang dari sekolah, jemput Dania & Shakil dari pengasuh. Angkut semua. Kami siap patah balik rumah dua kali memula abang tukar baju, lepas tu suami pulak kata takkan nak pergi dengan seluar pendek je. Cakap ok patah balik la tukar seluar dia tanya ok ke ku jawab masih boleh tahan ini.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Masa tu dah dekat-dekat masa orang nak balik kerja. Jangan la sangkut dalam jem. Sampai PPUM berpusing-pusing cari parking. Selamat sampai kat wad kecemasan bersalin 5.30 petang lebih kurang. Daftar beritahu dah 38 weeks dah rasa sakit, nurse tanya sejak bila dari pagi. Dari pagi baru ni datang hospital macam marah je hehe cakap la sakit tapi tak regular ni dah bertambah-tambah sakit tu yang datang hospital. Nurse suruh tukar baju, semua barang bagi pada suami. Nurse kata bg masa 2 jam doktor check dulu. Nanti apa-apa dia call suami.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Duduk la dalam 1 bilik seorang. Datang doktor interview history dari anak no.1 hingga yang bakal lahir ni. Check bukaan baru 4cm. Doktor kata early labour punya sakit. Mmg tak regular. Maybe tengah malam baru bersalin. Doktor pakar suruh naik wad antenatal aras 5 dulu. Sakit semakin kuat setiap 7 minit tapi nurse kata dalam ctg tak ada tunjuk sakit kuat pun. Naik atas dulu la ya. Jalan kaki je follow nurse.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Sampai atas dapat katil duduk sekejap, pergi turun cari suami. Puas la pusing-pusing tak jumpa. Naik bilik. Depan lif sakit kuat tiba-tiba. Stop dulu layan. Belum...belum lagi masanya hehe. Nurse depan kaunter wad antenatal tanya pergi mana? Bahaya sakit-sakit pergi sana sini. Dia suruh duduk semula di katil. Dia ambil no hp suami. Terasa nak pergi toilet tak tunggu dah nurse tu call ke apa. Pergi katil semula. DI katil sakit makin kuat.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Akhirnya suami dengan anak-anak munculkan diri. Kebetulan masa ni waktu melawat. Rasa lega sikit dapat tengok muka-muka mereka. Sakit makin lama makin kuat. Suami sibuk up status kat fb geram juga tolong la apa-apa yang patut (padahal aku pun sempat tgk fb sekejap hahaha). Last-last rasa memang tak boleh tahan masa ni baru lepas azan Maghrib berkumandang. Minta tolong suami urut sakit belakang. Lega sekejap je sakit ni. Baru teringat air selusuh mak buatkan. Minum separuh. Sakitnya semakin kuat. Tekan button call nurse beritahu dah sakit sangat.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Dia kata ok dia pergi inform doktor. Terasa nak membuang pergi toilet lagi sekali. Eh! Makin kuat sakit ni tapi nurse ke doktor tak ada datang. Tekan button bertalu-talu. Datang balik nurse tadi beritahu saya dah call doktor tapi tak datang-datang doktor ni. Inform nurse saya dah tak boleh tahan dah ni nurse. Sakit sangat. Dia suruh baring nak check.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Tiba-tiba datang surge rasa nak meneran sangat. Ya Allah nurse...baby nak keluar dah ni. Masa ini la nurse minta tolong daripada suami. Nurse tu cakap tolong saya tolak katil cepat. Allahuakhbar memang kelam kabut nurse tu. Suami pun tolak katil entah apa-apa je siap langgar pintu la. Dinding la. Dengan tarik anak-anak lagi suami tu. Masuk dalam lif sekali semua. Masih sempat dengar nurse kata kenapa bawa anak-anak sekali?. Dah takkan nak tinggal. Kami datang satu famili je (aku tolong jawab dalam hati je). Dalam lif nurse siap paksa kepit kaki, sekali datang surge Allahuakhbar spontan terkeluar dr mulutku kepala baby nak keluar...Allah ku lafaz kepala baby pun keluar di saksikan suami & anak-anak. Nurse pun dah tak boleh paksa kepit dah. Memang sudah masanya baby keluar. Masa ni memang dah tak ingat apa-apa. Bunyi ting! Sampai je aras 3 wad bersalin 1 lagi surge datang Allah aku lafaz buat kesekian kalinya keluarlah badannya pula tapi masa ni dah masuk pintu wad bersalin. Suami & anak-anak tak boleh ikut masuk. Sempat nurse tarik selimut tutup apa yg patut. Alhamdulillah masih terpelihara. Tak lama dengar bunyi baby menangis. Leganya masa ni.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif; line-height: 19.3199996948242px;">Sampai dalam bilik bersalin yg sama tadi nurse asyik tanya pukul berapa ni tadi lahir? Nurse yang tolak katil tadi tak dapat nak jawab. Tengok jam dalam bilik tu dah 7.50 malam. Maka time kelahiran di catat 7.50 malam tapi rasa-rasanya lagi awal dari tu baby lahir. Aku dah tak sabar-sabar nak tahu jantina baby. Nurse tu dah tersebut dulu sebenarnya. Alhamdulillah dapat baby girl aku cuma repeat balik je bila nurse tanya ibu dpt baby apa? Girl, perempuan senyum dlm kesakitan. Panjang lagi kisahnya tapi dipendekkan cerita selamat melahirkan baby girl 22/7/2015 syawal ke-6 jam 7.50 malam (lebih kurang la hehe). Sekian kisah bersalin dalam lif PPUM.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">At 38 weeks, checkup with Dr at Hospital Pantai Cheras. Dr cakap dah engaged. Tak expect dalam 2 hari bersalin. Hati risau takut nak bersalin waktu malam-malam. Mana nak letak Sara and Hana? Bincang-bicang dengan jiran dia agree nak jaga sementara mak abah sampai KL.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Turun tanda. Birth show. Hati gembira tak sabar nak praktik apa yg belajar and see my new baby. Surges comes and goes. Tak frequent rasa</span><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"> macam baby movement tak active. Pergi hospital check and CTG shown baby ok. Refused VE and balik rumah. Doc suruh repeat CTG esok. Ada satu nurse cakap-cakap dah 2x Cesareans, induce je or pecahkan ketuban bagi cepat keluar. Dalam hati sabar banyak-banyak mana boleh induce kalau nak bersalin normal (vaginal) kali ni and tak nak stress dengan nurse tu kang baby stress. Doa juga jangan la nurse ni jaga masa in labor. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Mak Abah datang. Lega sikit but second child, Hana kerap meragam tak tau nak apa. Bintik-bintik keluar di mulut, ada di lengan dan area vagina dia. Risau takut dia kena HFMD. Risau pulak baby nak keluar nanti takut berjangkit. Check Doc suspect kena scabbies..aduhai...lagi la risau baby dlm perut ni..</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Klinik call. Marah kenapa tak pergi check up. Orang tengah risau anak sakit. Lagi pun surges biasa-biasa je. So pergi la hospital petang tu. Check CTG. Result ok. Doc request nak buat VE. Mengalah je la. Sakit betul VE ni. Tiada bukaan pun so buat apa nak stay hospital cuma keep worried kalau terbersalin waktu doc cuti starting 20hb. Cakap kat husband kita ikut plan B. Jumpa Doc Hamiza at GMC. Dia accept birth plan, lega la...Keep texting Hanz. Maybe ni prodromal labor kot. Hati tak tenang nak deliver. Risau dengan anak no.2.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Sakit makin kerap dah start 12 tgh pagi. Buat segala position utk bear the pain. All-four paling best. Bila surges tiada rehat dan baring. Tak kejutkan husband pun. Masa ni Hana dah sihat sikit. Cakap kat baby, nak keluar, keluar la..</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Pergi hospital. Check in ward single bed penuh. Terpaksa ambil suite single. Dalam hati dok terpikir melambung kang bil sebab satu malam bilik tu charge dalam RM 300. Takper la asal selesa. Buat CTG pastu lepak bilik. Sentiasa minum air and makan kurma. Waktu Asar tu dah kerap surges nak solat pun tak selesa. Masuk labor room. Lampu bilik 'dim'kan sebab hypno tak boleh bilik terang-terang. Nanti tak boleh nak feel buat relaxation and visualisation. Buat VE dah 5cm..eh? Tak sakit pulak bila buat VE masa ni. Ikut birth plan guna wireless CTG tapi </span><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">biasa la nurse sibuk nak dapatkan CTG yang cantik.huhu. Alamak! Nurse yang ok dah habis shift. Nurse yang aku tak nak tu pulak ada..nasibbbb.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">After maghrib tu dah kuat surges nye. Fokus breathing. Visualize dok pergi berenang di pantai untuk divert sikit surges. Husban di sebelah beri kata-kata perangsang. Dalam pukul 10 malam gitu, check CTG and buat VE dah 7cm. Balik bilik mandi hot shower pun tak jalan. Asyik rasa nak ter-push. Rasa nak pakai pampers org dewasa je sebab asyik ter'pee' n ter'poo'. Banyak kali salin baju dan kain..Telan kurma banyak-banyak untuk dapatkan tenaga utk bearing down.</span></div>
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Dlm pukul 1 pagi tu cakap kat husband tak tahan ni. Rasa macam baby nak keluar ni. Masa labor room tapi tak boleh nak buat CTG sebab tak nak baring tak boleh nak breathing. Dok dalam tandas ok sikit. Rasanya air ketuban dah pecah masa duduk atas toilet bowl. Check VE dah fully dilate. Mula-mula on knee atas katil badan peluk katil (kepala katil dah tinggi). Helps a lot in breathing tapi tak ada pulak nak breathing down. Tukar position to semi reclined. Breathing down 3 kali tapi husband and nurse kata kepala baby masuk blk. Yang kali ke-4 rasa surges terus breathing down sampai kepala baby kat vagina. Perasan Doc masuk simbah oil kat vagina. Lupa nak tanya ape benda tu. Maybe VCO kot. Breathing down (visualize bunga ros kembang dan gambar kepala baby terus keluar dan rasa ring of fire (kat kelas, classmate bagi term ring of ice). Pastu baby meluncur keuar. Doc sambut dan letak kat dada. Tepat jam 4.03 pg baby keluar. Anak Tahun Baru C<a href="http://cina.tp/" style="color: #1155cc;" target="_blank">ina tap</a>i tak boleh nak DCC sebab baby macam ada emergency.Takpe la asal selamat. Nampak Doc macam nak jahit. Tanya koyak banyak ke? 1st degree tear je. Refuse jahit. Bersihkan sikit baby. Tak mandikan pun. Doc bagi baby semula kat aku. Bestnye moment ni dengan husband. Dapat juga bersalin normal tapi baby tak nak menyusu. Still in labor room nurse yang aku tak suka tu congrats kat aku. Maybe Allah bagi nurse ni untuk aku supaya dia lihat sendiri dan rasa pengalaman jaga ibu yang dah 2 kali Cesarean boleh normal. So takde la dia nak cakap benda-benda yang negatif next time.</div>
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Hanz Jamaludinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15069250576483216563noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9090496891031674002.post-47292382890756787532015-05-24T19:51:00.000-07:002015-05-26T11:40:55.225-07:00Smooth homebirth | The birth of baby Husna Ilmi<br />
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<span lang="MS"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><b>23 April 2015
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rumah pada waktu petang, saya sempat mencuci tandas. Pada hari ini juga, saya
dan suami mencuba natural inducer (making l0ve). Pada tengah malam, saya merasa
sakit tetapi tidak pasti akan bersalin atau tidak kerana sudah seminggu saya
mengalami sakit yang datang dan pergi. Untuk kesekian kalinya, saya meminta suami
mengepam pool dan pada kali ini barulah suami mengepam dan mencuci pool. Pada malamnya saya tidur seperti
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<span lang="MS"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Sekejap
tidur, sekejap ke toilet, sekejap rasa sakit. Antara jam 3-4 pagi, saya cuba
juga untuk mengira selang waktu kesakitan, setiap setengah jam. Ketika ini,
saya meminta suami mengisi air di dalam pool. Ketika rasa sakit, saya hanya
mampu menidurkan diri, menyembam muka ke bantal, membuat angry cat dan ke
toilet. Seingat saya sebelum subuh sudah keluar tanda darah. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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6.00 pagi, suami menyiapkan tiga orang anak untuk ke sekolah, taska dan
transit. Saya pula dalam keadaan tidur yang lena dan tidak lena. Saya dan suami
mengambil cuti pada hari ini. Di rumah, hanya saya dan suami sahaja. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="MS"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Jam
7 lebih, saya menghubungi pejabat mengatakan saya mc pada hari ini. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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8 lebih, sempat juga saya wassap group family meminta maaf. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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9 lebih, suami memberitahu mahu keluar membeli sarapan. Saya berbelah bagi,
saya kata tak perlu sarapan. Saya melayan sakit di atas katil sahaja. Beberapa
kali juga saya ke toilet pada pagi ini. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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pada jam berapa saya tidak pasti, saya ke toilet lagi, seperti mahu membuang
air besar. Selepas melaksanakan hajat, saya merasa keliru, ada rasa seperti
mahu bersalin atau membuang lagi. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="MS"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Saya
membersihkan diri dan segera ke dapur (tempat terletaknya pool yang sudah
tersedia awal pagi lagi). Saya masuk ke dalam pool, saya bersandar dan terasa
lega sangat. Suami menambah air panas ke dalam pool. Sensation datang, saya
cuba untuk duduk bersandar, terasa bukan posisinya. Saya bertukar ke posisi all
four, rasa lebih selesa. Bunyi suara yang tidak pernah keluar ketika saya
bersalin tiga orang anak sebelum ini terkeluar. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="MS"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Sensation
datang lagi, Allah... saya merasa crowning… saya menyuruh suami melihat, ada
apa-apa tak… mungkin dalam keadaan all four, suami tak nampak apa pun.
Sensation datang lagi, terasa mahu meneran, kepala baby keluar. Relaks sekejap.
Teknik pernafasan memang ke laut. Suami memang standby di belakang menyambut
baby. Sensation datang lagi, keluar lagi bahagian yang seterusnya. Suami beri
semangat, sikit lagi… <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="MS"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Alhamdulillah
baby keluar dalam keadaan tali pusat terbelit satu lilitan dan dileraikan lilitannya
oleh suami. Baby keluar jam 10.50 pagi. Air ketuban keluar bersama baby. Ada
sedikit bunyi dari baby setelah keluar, terbersin... Setelah dileraikan tali
pusat, saya meletakkan baby di dada. Saat itu, terasa sangat naluri keibuan. Suami
membaca surah, qamat dan doa. Saya cuba untuk menyusukan baby, tetapi baby saya
lebih enak tidur. Dalam 10 minit juga skin to skin antara saya dengan baby. Air
di dalam pool mula bertukar warna merah. Saya mahu keluar dari pool. Sebelum
keluar dari pool, dalam keadaan berdiri, terasa sakit pula. Seketul darah
keluar, saya meminta suami mengambil bekas. Dalam keadaan berdiri, saya menadah
uri yang keluar dengan bekas tersebut. Ketika ini, suami memegang baby.
Alhamdulillah uri keluar sempurna. Seterusnya saya ke tandas untuk mandi
wiladah. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="MS"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Selepas
selesai, saya mengambil tempoh bertenang. Hanz menyuruh saya minum air RLT
panas-panas dan makan kurma. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="MS"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Kami
ke hospital untuk membuat pemeriksaan. Saya mendapat first degree tear. Alhamdulillah
baby dalam keadaan baik. Tali pusat dipotong di hospital. Kami dipantau selama
dua malam di hospital. Suami bertanya, mana lebih sakit, bersalin di rumah atau
di hospital. Sebenarnya di rumah atau hospital, kedua-duanya sakit. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="MS"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Oh
ya, bersalin secara waterbirth bukanlah niat saya untuk mengikut mana-mana
pihak. Ketika membuang air besar, jika mengalami kesukaran, saya akan arahkan
air paip ke arah itu, dan ini memudahkan saya menunaikan hajat. Jadi saya
mengandaikan, saya akan lebih mudah bersalin dalam keadaan waterbirth.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="MS"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Selepas
tiga kali bersalin secara lying flat dan sekali bersalin posisi all four, saya
dapati bersalin secara all four lebih mudah, selesa, kurang rasa sakit dan
tidak memerlukan banyak tenaga.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="MS"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Dikesempatan
ini saya ingin mengucapkan terima kasih kepada guru saya CBE Hanz dan
rakan-rakan sekelas (Syida, Ida & Suri). Untuk melahirkan anak juga kita
perlukan ilmu, maka tuntutlah ilmu kelahiran dengan berguru. Terima kasih juga suami,
anak-anak dan keluarga yang menjadi tulang belakang dan memberi sokongan.
Syukur… Alhamdulillah…</span><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif; line-height: 19.3199996948242px;">Hari cuti berjalan seperti biasa. Tiada tanda-tanda akan melahirkan. Teringin nak makan nasi arab Mandy, ajak hubby gi Segi Supermarket beli bahan then singgah kedai beli air zam-zam yg mana asyik tertangguh aje nak membeli.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 19.3199996948242px;">Malam sebelum tu byk benda dah settle. Baru sekolah anak dah basuh, bilik air dah menyental,Baju pun dah basuh siap 2-3 trip lagi. Tengok ada lebihan nasi arab tengahari tu, calling jiran jiran dtg makan malam plak. Then jiran pun nak tumpang celebrate birthday anaknya. Maka malam tu jadi macam open house plak dok jamu jiran makan and end up jam 12 tghmalam. Kemas kemas dapur rumah then tidur jam 130am.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><b><u>10-05-15 Ahad</u></b></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 19.3199996948242px;">Tersedar dari tidur ada macam keputihan keluar suddenly (saya jarang ada keputihan) dan Isyak masih tertangguh lagi. Bangun solat Isyak then termenung sekejap.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 19.3199996948242px;">Terasa 2-3x keputihan keluar, buat spot check.Tak ada apa-apa yang ganjil.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 19.3199996948242px;">Tetiba mugus plak muncul dan surge pun tiba. Start do counting and send to my CBE</span><span style="line-height: 19.3199996948242px;"> </span><a class="profileLink" data-hovercard="/ajax/hovercard/user.php?id=1654585934&extragetparams=%7B%22directed_target_id%22%3A385520731520889%7D" href="https://www.facebook.com/HanzJamaludin" style="color: #3b5998; cursor: pointer; line-height: 19.3199996948242px; text-decoration: none;">Hanz Jamaludin</a><span style="line-height: 19.3199996948242px;"> </span><span style="line-height: 19.3199996948242px;">inform her. Kejutkan suami utk solat subuh dan suh hantar anak-anak ke rumah mak mertua incase "the day is today". Sibukkan diri mengemas baju nak ke hospital utk mama dan baby yg sekian lama asyik tertunda nak mengemas. At the same time, consume Olive Oil, VCO, Delima Oil dan juga Rasberry Leaf. Kurma juga makan.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 19.3199996948242px;">Husband gi hantar anak then saya nak terus solat subuh. Masih ada lagi surge tapi very mild.Lepas solat, squat ke ruang tamu suddenly blood mugus plak show up di lantai. Hati dah berdebar. Rasanya macam hari ni aje "Marathon Day".</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 19.3199996948242px;">Dapat reply from CBE, suspect mcm Broxton Hick aje so no need to worried and do as usual and remind me to do 4 step.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 19.3199996948242px;">Sibukkan diri lipat baju, suh hubby panaskan nasi konon-konon nak makan. Tapi mata macam mengantuk sangat lepas sapu EO lavender&clary di perut. Gi bilik nak tidur, tapi tak boleh sebab ada surge dan leaking masa tidur. Bangun dan buat hula,dok atas gym ball, jalan itik.Masa ni mmg tgh berkemban dgn kain batik dah.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 19.3199996948242px;">Minta hubby masakkan air panas nak mandi. Hubby jirus di belakang badan sambil mencangkung, tiba-tiba "pop" Tadah tangan kat bawah nak check betul air ketuban pecah. Tgk macam air putih putih tapi airnya jernih. Inform husband kata air ketuban mungkin dah pecah. Inform CBE, then CBE minta hubby cari air kelapa utk minum.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 19.3199996948242px;">Bermulalah episod melayan surge yg Maha Hebat Hanya Allah yg tahu.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif; line-height: 19.3199996948242px;">Macam macam gaya ada. Macam macam bunyi ada. Hubby dah tutup rapat-rapat tingkat, tak nak jiran-jiran suspect bukan-bukan.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 19.3199996948242px;">Dari berkemban terus tak berbaju, dari merangkak ke lantai, ke sofa, ke bilik air.Tertunggeng sana-sini. Mandi air panas berkali-kali.Deep breathing macam dah ke Lautan Hindi.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 19.3199996948242px;">Hubby sapu EO diperut, sebab each surge yg dtg perut saya nampak bergerak-gerak. Hubby dok remain, keep breathing, bertawakal, say he always with me, imagine the good thing. Tanya baby ada gerak-gerak tak. The way he talk very calm. Wife dia aje dah tak keruan. Nasib tak de maki hamun with him. Hihihi...</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 19.3199996948242px;">At the same time CBE inform dah boleh gi Hospital. Tapi saya refuse sebab macam tak boleh bergerak dah.</span></span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 19.3199996948242px;">HUbby still pujuk ke hospital sebab dia tak ready utk homebirth and worried about baby.Each surge datang I try to walk tapi tak boleh sebab kaki kiri akan start cramp. I cuma boleh All 4 di lantai dan bila duduk menyandar di sofa, Hubby put the EO di perut. Dapat la rest mata sekejap. Tgk hubby pun sampai terlelap dek EO tu... Then hubby akan cepat-cepat massage kat belakang kalau I suddenly change the position to all 4.Air ketuban merata satu rumah.Each surge akan ada leaking. Husband dok check colour apa yg keluar. Semuanya jernih plus ada colour merah darah yg very light.Takde fresh blood pun or hijau.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 19.3199996948242px;">Hubby ask permission nak solat dulu. I layan surge sorang-sorang, suddenly ada surge macam nak push masa All 4, tapi yg keluar hanya la "poo-poo", inform hubby lepas dia solat, dia kata takpe nanti dia bersihkan. 2-3 kali "poo-poo" with each surge yg datang. Mmg rasa macam nak push sangat-sangat dah. Tak boleh tahan dah.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 19.3199996948242px;">Tgk jam dok fikir, sempat tak nak ke hospital ni. Hari ni Ahad, jalan tak jammed. Rasa boleh ni.Kalau hari weekday mau 2jam ke Selayang dek traffic Jammed. Terus inform hubby ajak ke hospital. Hubby apa tah lagi dgn pantas bawa turun barang-barang ke kereta. Dia cakap dia akan dukung, papah kalau tak boleh jalan dah. Kami tinggal di tingkat 4.Takde lift. (hihihi..). Tapi dalam dok bersiap nak pakai baju pun, masih ada surge to push, mmg take time nak pakai baju, kain dan tudung.</span></span></div>
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Appointment - check up with Dr Ratna PMC. Discuss dgn Doc what if baby x kuar lg as per 'due date' since my 1st baby pun overdue 41w3d then induce. Oh myyyyy... I sgt2 trauma dgn induce & really hope dpt gentle birth. Nak enjoy the natural contraction from baby. I ask her to wait until 42w but she refused. Dia nak sampai 41w je - reason x nak tanggung apa2 risiko takut baby lemas,meninggal. At the same time she offered ve & ctg since i didn't get any 'hint' from baby. Buat ve tu konon nye dapat tolong bg jln sbb dia ada cakap dia buat mcm tu kt sorg patient dia then esoknye patient dia delivered baby. I reject la offer dia tu n pm sis Hanz coz kecewa dgn apa yg dia offer tu. Nampak dah x berapa nak pro gentle even she accepted my birth plan. Oh yaa.. I x bg tau pun dia pasal leaking & kisah my 1st baby yg kena induce tu. Hmm..klu bg tau mesti mcm2 dia nk buat nnt. So set another date 5.5.15 which is 3 days pass my 'due'.Balik tu sambil drive otak ligat pk pasal natural inducer. Nenas je yg terlintas time tu. </div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Masih aktif squat ditemani puteri 1st yg bakal jd kakak. Siap menari joget sakan sambil layan lagu kt<a href="http://mix.fm/" target="_blank">mix.fm</a>. Ptg lepas Asar ajak adik g shopping kt Setia City Mall. Mmg berjalan sakan dr ptg sampai ke mlm. </span></div>
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Aktif mcm biasa buat rutin harian kemas rumah. Dah beli nenas tapi blm mkn. Cont squat & dancing. Keep body active.. Ptg nk mandi utk perform Asar..ehhhh, ada birth show. Settle solat Asar just bg tau mak baby dah bg 1 hint. Berbelah bahagi nak mkn ke x nenas tapi mak dah kupaskan. So mkn je la. Again, wassap sis Hanz & Wahida utk confirmkan tu birth show ke x. Minum air kelapa muda stok last yg ada dlm fridge.</div>
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7pm : start mild contraction + every time nk pee je mesti ada keluar darah sikit2 mcm dah hujung period. Mula pakai panty liner. Time ni gymball mmg jd kawan every time contraction dtg. Layan contraction ambil gelak2 dgn my doter. Lps solat maghrib baca yassin sementara tunggu Isyak. Tiap kali contraction dtg mesti sujud. Settle solat Isyak dating dgn gymball lg. Bleeding still ada tiap kali pee & kt panty liner pun ada.</div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">12pm : start contraction yg kerap but timing not consistent. I malas nk kire masa sbb still bearable. Layan contraction dgn perasaan seronok sebab dapat rasa sakit yg natural.. Lega x kena induce. Besar nye impak/trauma Induce pada I. Layan contraction sambil wassap hubby. Dia kat sana baru pagi sabtu. So dia 'teman' I sepanjang mlm. Tiap kali contraction dtg I update him & tiap kali pee still ada bleeding. Hubby dah start risau coz bleeding non stop even bleeding tu x byk pun.</span><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"> </span></div>
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630am : hubby tanya bila nak pergi hosp. I know he worry about me. Again, I delay kan lagi masa nk pergi hosp. I cakap kat dia sakit ni still bearable. Mungkin perasaan happy sgt sbb baby nk kuar soon + excited layan natural contraction tu yg buat I kuat utk bertahan (Oxytocin) </div>
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730am : cakap dekat mak boleh la pergi hosp pagi ni. Tgk mak pun dah mcm x senang duduk. Kemas brg nk bawa g hosp masuk kereta. buat siap2 rasberry leaf tea jd bekal minum pagi tu. Sempat bawa 1 kotak lg utk bekal kt hosp. </div>
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9am : gerak pergi hosp. Cium my doter siap2. Hati sebak + happy masa cium dia yg tgh tido lena. Otw g hosp sempat ajak abah singgah kedai mkn nk breakfirst bihun sup. Makan sambil layan contraction.</div>
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1030am : sampai hosp & staff mcm biasa minta buat ctg n ve. Dah 5cm. I rase mcm..laaa, baru 5cm. Blh balik ni.haha.. Tapi mak x bg. Mak cakap ni ank no 2 bila2 blh kuar. Honestly contraction mmg x teruk sgt mcm kena induce.. Nurse bagi baju utk admit. Settlekn deposit n pilih wad. Bila kt bilik nurse team Doc Ratna dtg n review blk my birth plan. Doc xde coz dia offday. Yg on duty Datuk Zarul. I cakap kt nurse xpe. I boleh tunggu Doc Ratna. Nurse x kacau since I nk gentle birth. So I'm free from ctg n ve dlm wad. Dlm bilik bukan duduk diam berjalan je..bleeding still ada. Tiap kali contraction je mesti rasa 'something' keluar juga. Mkn kurma n minum air raspberry leaf tea. Air zam zam juga bekal. 3 ni je ulang2 mkn n minum</div>
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5pm : contraction makin kuat. Time ni mmg sakit tapi tetap bawa berjalan. Layan contraction sambil wassap hubby suruh dia tdo je since dah lewat mlm. Sempat cakap kt dia jgn risau, anak u keluar time u tgh tido lena..then wassap kwn2 rapat sambil gelak2 lg. Then decide mandi sebab nk solat Asar. Mandi hot shower mmg membantu utk kurangkan rasa sakit bila contraction dtg. Time solat mmg gagahkan diri juga solat mcm biasa. Nurse dtg check perut since I refuse utk ctg. Dia amek bacaan manually. </div>
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530pm : Air ketuban pecah n ada color hijau mcm baby dah berak. Nurse inform doc & doc request utk drip- induce bg cepat baby keluar. Time ni dah 8cm. I x nak tapi mak setuju. Bila doc & nurse keluar sempat cakap kt mak ubat tu sakit. Mak risau cucu dia..dtg nurse terus drip. Mmg spt yg dijangkakn. Sakit terus dtg 5 min lps kena drip. Sakit yg memang sgt kuat. Time ni terus buat all fours. Sambil minta mak urut blkg.. </div>
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♡ Tq so much to my GURU sis Hanz. Joined her class when I was in 33w. Tq for the priceless knowledge & advise.</div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Hari ni Adik Baby dah 4 hari usianya. Lahir pada 11 April, 12.55am (kate papa, mama xdpt tgk jam). Syukur kepada ALLAH SWT kerana memberi izinNYA utk mama menikmati saat kelahiran yg sgt berbeza dan sgt membahagiakan kali ini. Hampir semua birth plan mama & papa berjaya dicapai.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; line-height: 17.5636px; text-align: justify;">4. Tak tlantar je kt katil.. mcm2 posisi yg boleh mbantu dilation mama buat..</span><br />
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<span style="line-height: 17.5636348724365px;">9. Ye...bukan dibawa lari.. bonding dulu ng mama..</span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 17.5636348724365px;">10. Fear creates Pain.. relax, breathing.. dgr CD Rainbow Relaxation...</span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 17.5636348724365px;">11. Papa xdpt potong..nurse buatkn.. papa tgh sibuk uruskn kakak.. (doula kecik)</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">Syukur kepada ALLAH SWT yang maha pengasih lagi maha penyayang atas kurniaan rezeki dan nikmat yang tidak putus-putus buat Mama Papa dan juga anak-anak kami. Adik baby 33mgu dlm kandungan Mama, ALLAH SWT mberi hidayah, Alhamdulillah Mama belom terlambat.. Knowledge is Powerfull.. Adik baby lahir pada Cesarean Awareness Month..di kelilingi ahli keluarga sendiri, di sambut oleh walinya, Papa sendiri.. I did it, Im a VBAC mom.. Subhanallah, walhamdulillah, walaillahailallah, wallahuakbar..</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif; text-align: justify;">In conclusion, i would say i got about 95% of the gentle birth i wanted. <b><i>oh,i had to add that during transition i was verrrrrryyyy sleepy... so sleepy that i just wanted to get it over with n then sleep n sleep... but i ended up not being able to sleep for d next 24 hours after giving birth... irony:)</i></b></span>Hanz Jamaludinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15069250576483216563noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9090496891031674002.post-71377862250994170792015-02-11T02:42:00.000-08:002015-04-06T09:33:50.676-07:00Serene Office Birth Story | Baby Muhammad's birth story<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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but having our first born the way we wanted is all that matter to us. I want to
thank to Hanz Jamaludin (Sis Hanz) and my sister for being there for us even
the person is not there and we just contacted them by using whatapps and facebook
messages only, but it means a lot to us.May Allah bless their family with good health
and happiness.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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homebirth when my sister did her’s homebirth, she gave birth to her’s first born
and i read about her birth story it was beautiful and it touched me a lot. She’s
opened up my mind about the drug and how it can affect the baby inside. I won’t go
through homebirth if hubby(my husband) not into it but ALHAMDULILLAH,
he understand me, he knew I could do it if I put my mind into it and also
because he had been persuaded by my sister too...huhu. Then my sister recommended
that hubby and I should go to Amani Birth class. </span></span></div>
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taught us everything we should know about liked how to breath calmly, eat
healthy , sensation, labor and drug side effect. We did water birth at my husband’s
office. It’s all set up by him. My edd was 26/5/2014 but I gave birth 2 week
early(38 week).<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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ache came and went since I was at 36 week pregnant so I guess that’s how braxton
hicks felt like. But there’s no sign of water break or blood show yet. My
sister asked me “how am I doing?”and i just replied to her that “I can’t wait for
the baby to came out..ehehee.” She said be “patient the time will come” and she
advicedme to always exercise, drink plenty of water and be active. And I
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birth class that when you 'loveydovey'(making love) also one of natural inducer and make the wife
felt liked they are lovable. After we loveydovey, I took a warm shower a bit to
ease my back pain. Then I realized there's a blood and I said to hubby “hubby the
blood has show” with a smile on my face. But he was a bit worry because he thought that
the cause of that blood is when we loveydovey. I told him that it’s
nothing to be worry about, he asked me that if i could ask my sister if it’s normal.
Before that I informed sis <a href="https://www.blogger.com/null" name="_GoBack"></a>hanz, sis fay and sis aimi that
I had a blood show. Then I texted my sister ask about the blood and she said “nothing
to be worry about.” She reminded me to do all the usual stuff. The tummy ache
kept on coming and making me felt a bit uncomfortable. At 5pm we went to the
clinic, we asked the doctor for vaginal check up, and now I knew how vaginal
check up felt liked! Ughh..the doctor said that “it’s already open 2 cm.” I was
happy and then we went home to packed some clothes to go to the office. The
night came and I did the usual stuff like drank raspberry tea leaf, pelvic
rock, listened some music and belly dancing. We actually thought this is the night
that we are waiting for, but nothing happen at that night. So we went home.
Before I went to sleep, I prayed first, i prayed that hoping nothing will go wrong
and prayed that we gave all our hope to Him.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Wake up in the
morning for Fajr prayer. We prayed May Allah helped us and make it easy for us. My
tummy ache came and went again, i ignored it with breathing while doing my house
chores. After I finished wash the toilet I felt the tummy ache again and this
time my breathing didn’t work much. I said to hubby that it’s time to go to the
office. Before we went to the office I took a warm bath for the second time to
relax and it did work a bit. It was 10.30 am and we on our way to the
office. I could not even sit still in the car, I felt liked wanted to stand and i
don’t want to sit my bottom down. We arrived at 10.50 am at the office and i
went to the room that already set up a pool, gym ball and a bed for me. Hubby
turned on the speaker to play the yiruma music to calm me down. It did calmed me
while I was doing pelvic rock to ignored the sensation.12.00 pm the sensation
became more strong than before the pelvic rock can’t calm me now, I asked hubby a
water and a raspberry tea leaf. Hubby calmed me down he said “patient, stay
strong” and he reminded me to breathe. At 2.00 pm hubby offered me some banana to eat
but I refused because the sensation became stronger after that the surges
gone for a bit. I ask him for somenyor(coconut water) instead. Hubby wanted me
to go for a walked a bit in circle,at first I refused when the second time he
asked me and he said to me he will support my shoulder, I nodded my head a sign that
I agreed with it, he knew that I felt liked I can’t barely walked for even a
minute.The surges become closer after the walked. 2.50 pm my mind started to give
up and when i saidto hubby that I felt liked giving up while lying down at my
back at the bed and my leg wide open then hubby said “Baby, I can see theketuban”
I was liked “what?”. Hubby said “do you want to look?” I nod my head because I
can’t even say yes then he take a picture at my vagina, he showed me the picture
and that gave me hope again. I ask him for one more walked even if I can’t
stand up but i insist to walked with hubby support me at the shoulder. After
the walked I said to hubby “it’s time to sit in the pool” while his putting the
warm water into the pool and I was about to put myleft leg into the pool a ‘pop’ sound came out, I said to hubby “the
water just broke”. When I was in the pool the surges is closer and closer, the
sensation became more stronger and I can’t even control my breathing. I kept my
mouth saying “Allah, Allah, Allah” and hubby by my side said “sabar b,
sikitlagi”.At 3.12pm i sawhalf of the baby head and hubby didn’t touch the baby
head yet, then hubby said “one more push b”.One minute later full baby’s head
came out and around 25 second, baby’s right hand came out with the whole body,andit
happen too fast. At 3.15pm hubby catch the baby and put him at my chest. I
cried and said “Allah, Allah, Alhamdulillah.” Muhammad bin Hafiz cries for
awhile and fall asleep at my chest. Hubby took our son and azan at his little
ear while I watched him azan my heart felt so calm, inside my thought I said “YaAllah.
I will never forget this day. Thank you Allah for making it all easy for us”.
The feeling was wonderful. After that we text my sister and sis hanz the happy
news while we waiting for the placenta to come out, to be honest when I waited
the placenta to came out it hurt a bit but the pain never bother me at that
time because I been distracted by our little baby boy. 15 minute later the
placenta came out and we delay cord clap for about one hour after that cord been
cut by hubby, he clean up the room and I take a bath and rest with our newborn
son. After hubby finished cleaned up, he ‘tahnik’ our son.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">11.00 am we went to
the hospital and I had 1st degree tear and no stitches needed. What annoyed me
the most when the nurses kept asking me whether I want to stitches my vagina or
not even when I said I don’t want to stitches it.The doctor check our son four
timeswith three different doctor. The Doctor said I need to stay in the
hospital at least 12 hours. Hubby refuse for me to stay there. Alhamdulillah,
the doctor said he was a healthy baby and weight
2.4 kg. We discharged at that day.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: 12pt;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Someone asked me how
does it felt liked doing homebirth? I answered
with a smile and said there’s not much a different the only different is
my son is drug-free, he came to this world calmly and we knew that we did the
right decision. Giving birth is a beautiful gift whether you homebirth or not
has long you know what you want!</span><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
Hanz Jamaludinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15069250576483216563noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9090496891031674002.post-2792153713692263912015-02-07T08:31:00.001-08:002015-02-07T08:31:21.431-08:00Gently borned in hospital with perseverance and determination | Srikandi Solehah Birth Story<b style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 17.9971580505371px; text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><u>DISCLAIMER :</u> Permission obtained from the rightful owner of this birth story and no editing is done to maintain its originality for education purpose. Kindly seek permission from site owner if you wish to share amongst your network.</span></b><br />
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<i style="line-height: 17.5636348724365px;">3. Chia seed, flax seed, saffron, susu kambing, susu lembu.</i></div>
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<i style="line-height: 17.5636348724365px;">4. 9 bulan terakhir, air zam zam, kurma, vco, pevoo, sayur hijau everyday. </i></div>
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<i style="line-height: 17.5636348724365px;">5. Hb low on week 38. Makan kailan everyday. By week 39, hb up semula 11.3. Seriously, amazing kailan. </i></div>
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<i style="line-height: 17.5636348724365px;">6. Banyak Mkn homemade food je. Kalau beli pun tengok kedai.</i></div>
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<i style="line-height: 17.5636348724365px;">1. Squat 10 times setiap kali selepas solat. Total squat per day, 50times. </i></div>
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<i style="line-height: 17.5636348724365px;">2. Perinium massage, guna pevoo, vco. </i></div>
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<i style="line-height: 17.5636348724365px;">3. Vocalizations uuuuuuu...ooooooo and training J breathing technique. (During loo)</i></div>
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<i style="line-height: 17.5636348724365px;">4. Naik tangga, turun.</i></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><b>KISAH KELAHIRAN SRIKANDI SOLEHAH.</b></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">SRIKANDI SOLEHAH BIRTH STORY</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Rabu, 21 Januari dah ada keluar darah, mulai Maghrib. Dibiarkan sahaja. Hanz kata, no surge, no baby. Ok, Aina dulu pun, macam tu juga. Hampir seminggu keluar darah, hari ke 8 baru bersalin.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Khamis, 22Januari, ke klinik macam biasa. Rahsiakan dulu darah tu, nurse check heart beat baby, semua ok. So, tak perlulah ceritakan kepada nurse tentang darah ni.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Jumaat, jalani hari seperti biasa. Makan apa nak makan sebab ada pasar malam, kan. Sebab dalam hati dah rasa tak lama lagi kena pantang makan!</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Sabtu, 3.30am terjaga daripada tidur. Hendak ke toilet seperti biasa. Selepas buang air kecil, cuba pejamkan mata.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 17.5636348724365px;">Tiba-tiba terasa ada contraction. Cuba juga pejamkan mata.</span><span style="line-height: 17.5636348724365px;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 17.5636348724365px;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Ah, tak boleh! Baru je sekejap tadi sakit. Sekarang contraction dating lagi. Cepatnya!</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 17.5636348724365px;">Install contraction timer dalam telefon. Cuba timer contraction.</span><span style="line-height: 17.5636348724365px;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 17.5636348724365px;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Eh, dah 4 minit.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Kadang-kadang, 3 minit.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 17.5636348724365px;">Bangunlah. Solat sunat. Kalaulah ini Subuh terakhir aku…</span><span style="line-height: 17.5636348724365px;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 17.5636348724365px;">Buat kerja sikit. Kemas kain kat bawah.</span><span style="line-height: 17.5636348724365px;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 17.5636348724365px;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Buat air.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 17.5636348724365px;">Minum susu kambing.</span><span style="line-height: 17.5636348724365px;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 17.5636348724365px;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Makan VCO</span></span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 17.5636348724365px;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Makan Pevoo</span></span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 17.5636348724365px;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Minum susu lembu</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 17.5636348724365px;">Makan kurma Ajwa sebanyak-banyaknya.</span><span style="line-height: 17.5636348724365px;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 17.5636348724365px;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Minum air zam-zam sambal berlari-lari anak dalam rumah.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 17.5636348724365px;">Ada lagi barang yang belum dikemas. Kemas beg hospital juga.</span><span style="line-height: 17.5636348724365px;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 17.5636348724365px;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Sambil naik tangga turun tangga. Sesekali berhenti menarik nafas bila contraction sampai.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Contraction semakin kuat, selang 3-4-5 minit.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Suami Tanya, kalau dah 15minit, kita ke PBBR. Cuba control. Tak apa… Masih boleh bercakap dengan baik.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Salah satu timing nak hampir bersalin, ialah vocal kita. Kalau dah tak mampu nak bercakap tu, ha, segeralah ke hospital.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Sudah hampir masuk waktu Solat Subuh. Suami bersiap. Solat.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Semakin kuat contraction. Hampir tak boleh nak bercakap. Ada rasa nak meneran.</span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 17.5636348724365px;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Telefon mak di kampong, minta doa…</span></span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 17.5636348724365px;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Telefon mak mentua, minta mak doakan juga. Dua hamba Allah ini, doanya sangat aku perlukan selain daripada doa suami…</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Mandi.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 17.5636348724365px;">Bersiap nak solat Subuh.</span><span style="line-height: 17.5636348724365px;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 17.5636348724365px;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Aduh, terasa macam nak muntah.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Tak sempat pakai telekung, selambak muntah dalam bilik, atas telekung, atas sejadah. Busuk bau susu-susu yang di minum tadi. Mujur kurma tak keluar sekali.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 17.5636348724365px;">Solat 2 rakaat pun ada terhenti sebab contraction.</span><span style="line-height: 17.5636348724365px;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 17.5636348724365px;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Bacaan ambil yang wajib sahaja. Rasanya dah tak lama. Ada rasa nak push!</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Homebirth?</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Tak.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Kami sempat nak kereta, keluar dari rumah sambal Aina terpisat-pisat kena kejut awal pagi. Kasihan Aina. Pandang wajahnya. Adakah ini Subuh terakhir aku pandang wajah anak? Suami?</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Sampai sahaja bulatan Sri Serdang, ALAMAK! Tertinggal kad pengenalan. Aku tak tahu sama ada kad pengenalan diperlukan atau tidak. Tapi kami berpatah balik ke rumah. Dah buang masa sikit kat situ.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Suami memandu dengan lampu kecemasan. GPS menghala ke PBBR kami ikut dengan agak laju. Aku squat di kerusi penumpang hadapan sambal peluk tempat bersandar. Aina tahu aku sakit.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Aku minta suami laju sikit je, sebab memang aku dah ada rasa nak push!</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Carbirth?</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Tak…</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 17.5636348724365px;">Tepat 7 suku pagi, kami sampai di PBBR.</span><span style="line-height: 17.5636348724365px;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 17.5636348724365px;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Aku diminta baring untuk cek VE. Baring sekejap sahaja sebab aku nak berdiri dan berjalan.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">“Eh, puan, kepala baby dah kat sini!”</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">“Masuk LR!” jerit nurse.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">“Puan nak kerusi roda?”</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">“Tak, saya nak berjalan sendiri.”</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">“Di mana ya, biliknya?”</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">“Sini, puan. Puan tukar baju cepat, kami nak siapkan bahan-bahan,”</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">“Sekejap, saya rasa ada contraction,”</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Sambil tukar baju, aku melompat-lompat dengan keyakinan, gravity akan bawa baby turun.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">“Baring puan,”</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">“Sekejap, saya ada contraction. Saya tak mahu baring kalau ada contraction,”</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">“Beri kerjasama, puan. Kami takut puan bersalin berdiri nanti,”</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">“Tak apa, Bersalin berdiri pun saya tak kisah,”</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">“Saya ada rasa nak push!”</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Segera aku baring kerana nurse semakin risau dan kelam kabut. Mungkin tak pernah ada orang bersalin squat atau berdiri.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Sebaik-baik sahaja aku baring, aku pegang kaki dan menghembuskan nafas sekuat-kuatnya sambal bertakbir.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">727pagi, Sabtu, 24Januari.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Lahirlah insan kecil berbau Syurga dengan ungkapan, Allahuakbar.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">“Alhamdulillah, Assalamualaikum baby, “ nurse ucap kepada baby. Rakaman selawat aku dengar di kawasan lobi sebab nurse tak tutup pintu LR. Ha ha. Kelam kabut semua orang, sampai glove pun tak sempat nurse nak pakai.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Semuanya sekelip mata.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">“Bagus, puan. Pandai puan push baby,”</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">“Puan dapat anak apa, puan?”</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">“Alhamdulillah, anak perempuan,”</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Aku ambil baby dan mulakan Skin to skin. Baby pun pandai cari makanan dia. Buang air terus sejurus keluar dari perut.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 17.5636348724365px;">Kami direhatkan 4 beranak dalam LR selama hampir 2 jam. Suami tahnikkan baby dengan kurma Ajwa yang kami bawa.</span><span style="line-height: 17.5636348724365px;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 17.5636348724365px;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Pukul 11pagi baru masuk ke wad.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">5 petang, kami dah dibenarkan pulang.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 17.5636348724365px;">Alhamdulillah.</span><span style="line-height: 17.5636348724365px;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 17.5636348724365px;">Allahuakbar.</span><span style="line-height: 17.5636348724365px;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 17.5636348724365px;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Allah Maha Mengetahui.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 17.5636348724365px;">Srikandi ini masih belum bernama.</span><span style="line-height: 17.5636348724365px;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 17.5636348724365px;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Hari ini sudah hari ke 6.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 17.5636348724365px;">Selamat datang wahai srikandiku.</span><span style="line-height: 17.5636348724365px;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 17.5636348724365px;">Selamat datang ke dunia nyata.</span></span></div>
Hanz Jamaludinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15069250576483216563noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9090496891031674002.post-36865871914778240442015-01-26T08:42:00.000-08:002015-12-05T23:06:40.300-08:00Active natural vaginal birth after cesarean in hospital | Baby Izz Zahraa' Batrisyia Birth Story<br />
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Alhamdulillah, 22jan 2015 jam 21:20 kenangan yang saat indah buat kami suamisteri. Berjaya vba1c di Azzahra Bangi,my gynea Dr Fazlina. (Natural birth tanpa disangka kecuali VE)</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Overdue 3hari,Dr Fazlina bagi masa sampai hujung bulan januari. If tak induce. Dr awal lagi dia cakap mai tak ada masalah nak vbac sbb dulu baby melintang kecuali kalau mai tak thn sakit. (Sbb mai ada masalah tulang & Dr suspek slipped disc efek daripada eksiden masa pregnant-kan baby ni pada 6/6/14 yg lalu) Bila dengar je perkataan "induce" tu tak berapa gemar sangat. Tp layankan je la apa yg Dr Fazlina ckp. Mai lagi pilih natural inducer.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><b>20-21jan</b> - Cari natural induce. my natural induce,makan nenas (beli nenas madu 3 biji) buat jus nenas,aiskrim nenas & raspberry leaf tea 2 uncang. Masa ni tak rasa contraction.</span></div>
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<b><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">22 jan.</span></b></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><b><i>Pagi </i></b>→ Ada rasa contraction. My mom dah standby kat rumah. Masa tu still fikir Braxton Hicks. Takpe, layankan je. Siapkan anak-anak,hantar anak sulung pergi sekolah & 2nd ke playschool. Balik rumah settlekan hal-hal rumah sambil-sambil layan contraction. Muka buat cam biasa je.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><b style="line-height: 17.5636348724365px;"><i>11pagi</i></b><span style="line-height: 17.5636348724365px;"> → Ada rasa sakit sangat tangkap pinggang. Tahankan je. Temankan ayah tiri & mama pergi buat treatment resdung kat Salak Tinggi. Naik turun tangga. Jalan-jalan beli barang kat kedai 2ringgit. Hehe. Pastu pergi giant beli keperluan sikit & selipar untuk anak kat sekolah (time solat kat dewan solat) sampai sekolah anak,panjat tangga lagi. Semput gak sebab kelas anak tingkat 3. Amik anak 2nd kat tadika, naik tangga lagi</span><span style="line-height: 17.5636348724365px;"> </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Sampai rumah,masak untuk lunch. Masa ni dah rasa sakit,malas nak fikir sakit. Buat squat time potong bawang & masak . Hehehe. Siap masak kejutkan mama. Makan sama-sama.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><b><i>3 petang</i></b> →Call husband ckp sakit tak hilang-hilang. Husband</span><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif; line-height: 17.5636348724365px;"> ingatkan pergi mandi suam-suam. Mandi air suam agak lega tapi still sakit. Dah siap mandi,buat squat & exercise dengan gym ball. Siap konon nak balut buku sekolah anak tapi tak boleh sebab dah hilang fokus.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><b><i>6 petang</i></b> → Husband balik. Ajak pergi Azzahrah, Bangi. Cakap kat mama kononnya sakit dah 10:1:1 sbb tak mau mama panik. Muka control senyum. Tapi cakap kat husband</span><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif; line-height: 17.5636348724365px;"> dah 3:1:1. Actually memang marah kat husband sebab dia ingat mai main-main. Dia lambat keluar ofis.Mujur jalan tak jem ke bangi,rumah kat Nilai. Ngee</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><b><i>Maghrib</i></b> → Sampai azzahra . Suruh husband parking jauh-jauh sebab nak jalan kaki. Sambil tu nak kumpul oxytocin. Sambil-sambil sakit contraction. terus pergi tingkat 2,masuk bilik ctg. Nurse cakap ctg tak cantik. Suruh mengiring ke kiri. Masa ni dah rasa 2:1:1. Pinggang sakit sangat sampai tak boleh nak gerak. Nurse ingatkan suruh buat deep breath. Nurse cadangkan solat maghrib dulu sebab bidan ada kes bersalin. Ok. Solat dulu. Naik surau guna lif. Solat maghrib & solat taubat. Minta semua dipermudahkan. Surau tingkat.3,bilik prosedur tingkat 2. Turun ke bilik prosedur guna tangga. Nurse suruh baring,tapi I refuse cakap nak jalan-jalan.ada kerusi,duduk kat kerusi tu. Pusing-pusing buat macam gym ball. Hihi. Bidan datang,buat VE. Relakan je. Bidan tanya history birth baby sebelum ni. Ada czer kan? Aah jwb mai. Sakit tak tempat czer? Mai cakap tak,bidan kata if sakit cakap. Ikut prosedur if sakit tak boleh normal kena czer sbb nanti rahim pecah. Nah !! Sudah ada ayat negatif disini. Buat bodoh je,dalam hati saya deal dengan gynea ok je. Hihi. Bukaan dah 7cm.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><b><i>8.20 mlm</i></b> → Naik LR. Bidan ckp Dr Fazlina on the way. Dr cakap tak payah Arom biarkan puan natural. Dalam hati mai. YAHOOOO !!!! Sampai LR,tukar uniform semua. Nurse suruh baring,mai cakap nanti dulu. Nak jalan-jalan.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Husband masuk bawa makanan. Yeah !! Masa ni memang sakit sangat tapi boleh tahan lagi. Walaupun bila sakit tak boleh gerak. Husband offer burger abg burn daging + cheese my favourite & fresh oren. Pe lagi ngap !! Ada lagi pisang cheese jakarta tapi tak dan nak makan. Hihi. Lepas makan memang sakit sangat.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Tak ingat dah pukul berapa,nurse suruh baring buat ctg. Masa ni memang sakit sangat. Memang tangkap pinggang. Husband tenangkan mai dengan baca ayat kursi. Mai tak putus-putus baca doa nabi yunus. Nurse buat VE,dah buka 9cm. Nurse ingatkan if sakit buat deep breath & baca sama-sama doa nabi yunus. I masa tu,rasa nak teran. Cakap kat nurse, dah tak tahan rasa nak teran. Nurse veteran ckp tak boleh Dr tak sampai lagi. Takutkan nanti koyak puan sebab baru 9cm,10cm baru boleh teran. Sabar iye.. tarik nafas puan,hembus kata nurse. (Dlm hati itu 10cm tu sop hosp)</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Mai ckp lagi,saya dah rasa baby kat bawah nak keluar dah. Allah !!! Tu je yang dapat keluar dari mulut. Husband cakap dia nampak rambut sikit tapi nurse pergi tahan baby daripada keluar sebab Dr tak sampai lagi. Masa tu dalam otak dapat fikir positif sikit,maybe diaorang tak mau amik risiko if jadi apa-apa dengan mai kot? Mulut hanya sebut Allah & bacaan nabi yunus. Bagusnya nurse-nurse tu,diaorang tahu mai dah tak tahan sakit sebab seorang nurse ni tahan baby daripada keluar. Berapa minit diorang tahan mai tak tahu. Nurse ada 3 orang, tiga-tiga ingatkan mai terus deep breath dengan betul & betulkan bacaan doa nabi yunus mai yg tunggang langgang. Husband gosok-gosok tangan kanan, kepala & ubun-ubun mai sambll istighfar & baca ayat kursi. Rasa tenang sikit.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Gynea sampai je,nurse cakap bukaan 9cm patient nak teran. Gynea cakap tak yah Epi,bagi patient keluarkan baby. Masa ni,2x push ikut masa mai. Baby keluar. Husband cakap air ketuban keluar sekali dengan baby. Memang tak episiotomi, husband nampak koyak sendiri. Masa ni rasa lega sangat walaupun pinggang masih sakit. Lepas push & baby keluar terus Dr letak baby kat dada & skin to skin. Secara tak sengaja dapat delay cord clamping. Walaupun dcc mai tak tekankan sangat.</span></div>
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<i><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Alhamdulillah. Semuanya dipermudahkan. No epi,no arom ,no induce seperti yg mai idamkan & mai masa join amani class kak hanz.</span></i></div>
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<i><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Tqvvm to rakan2 ican/vbac yg share ilmu. Tq to my sister <a class="weakReference profileLink" data-hovercard="/ajax/hovercard/user.php?id=567674308&extragetparams=%7B%22directed_target_id%22%3A385520731520889%7D" href="https://www.facebook.com/jj.madziatul" style="color: #7f7f7f; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none; white-space: nowrap;"><span class="img sp_4JGKvhoQR2X sx_15dd7b" style="background-image: url(https://fbstatic-a.akamaihd.net/rsrc.php/v2/y_/r/plPY9mJdbxz.png); background-position: 0px -164px; background-repeat: no-repeat; background-size: 18px 220px; display: inline-block; height: 10px; margin-right: 3px; width: 10px;"></span>Madziatul Madrus</a>,<a class="weakReference profileLink" data-hovercard="/ajax/hovercard/user.php?id=572115680&extragetparams=%7B%22directed_target_id%22%3A385520731520889%7D" href="https://www.facebook.com/nuryani.dkhaw" style="color: #7f7f7f; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none; white-space: nowrap;"><span class="img sp_4JGKvhoQR2X sx_15dd7b" style="background-image: url(https://fbstatic-a.akamaihd.net/rsrc.php/v2/y_/r/plPY9mJdbxz.png); background-position: 0px -164px; background-repeat: no-repeat; background-size: 18px 220px; display: inline-block; height: 10px; margin-right: 3px; width: 10px;"></span>Nur Yani DKhaw</a>,<a class="profileLink" data-hovercard="/ajax/hovercard/user.php?id=100002230938995&extragetparams=%7B%22directed_target_id%22%3A385520731520889%7D" href="https://www.facebook.com/ila.sahira" style="color: #3b5998; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;">Ila Sahira</a> & my beloved CBE kak <a class="profileLink" data-hovercard="/ajax/hovercard/user.php?id=1654585934&extragetparams=%7B%22directed_target_id%22%3A385520731520889%7D" href="https://www.facebook.com/HanzJamaludin" style="color: #3b5998; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;">Hanz Jamaludin</a>. Dengan ilmu yg kak bagi masa kelas ianya lagi mengeratkn kasih sayang kami suami isteri. Tak rugi ikut Amani class. Alhamdulillah alhamdulillah alhamdulillah.</span></i></div>
Hanz Jamaludinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15069250576483216563noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9090496891031674002.post-64246728072333673452015-01-03T23:07:00.000-08:002015-12-07T06:42:54.822-08:00Giving faith, mothering instinct and knowledge to take charge in childbirth<br />
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">I don’t know where to start, but since it’s already a long article as it is, here goes.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">We went to a lot of hospitals in deciding which is best for my 1<sup>st</sup> labor, but couldn’t make a decision. Probably it was “takdir”, meant for us, that every hospital we went to did not fit my preference (Of course my hubby’s tight budget delisted a few L - why you cheapskate you). I even broke down and cried at one of the private hospitals we went to for no reason . It’s just one of the instincts you have as a mother. Proven a good instinct, considering a friend’s labor experience there, a few weeks later. So we decided it would be HKL - the most recommended natural birth government facility, so they say. Largely since the private ones (those reasonably priced), more often than not have bad reputations. It seems like money= good natural birth in Malaysia.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">So here’s our amazing, wonderful, unforgettable, God-assisted home-water-birth story…</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">That night, I couldn’t put myself to sleep as I was too anxious anticipating. At this point I was watching Running Man, for the ‘good feel’ vibe as hubby puts it, and was vigorously applying deep breathing routines. I also tried every birth position learnt (medically tested and impossible ones too!), in hope of lessening the sensation, and to find out which position I’d likely choose.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">So as hubby was sound asleep (annoyingly enough), I was on all fours, bouncing on the gym ball, hip rolling, sujud (prostrating), etc. to pass the stage. For what it’s worth, the best position for me was on all fours.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">In short, it was a long sleepless night. Although I’ve had sleepless nights well before the blood show. Which was probably why I was not too worried.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Hubby wakes up. Like any other day, gets prepared for work. Clueless as usual.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">After discussing with hubby, we decided not to go to Kg Baru just yet. There was a concern with my frequent contractions but judging from the intensity, and that there was yet water-break (also the fact that we did not consider last night as blood-show), we decided (well mostly hubby decided - darn you!) that the baby may come either tonight, or <span class="aBn" data-term="goog_657069445" style="border-bottom-color: rgb(204, 204, 204); border-bottom-style: dashed; border-bottom-width: 1px; position: relative; top: -2px; z-index: 0;" tabindex="0"><span class="aQJ" style="position: relative; top: 2px; z-index: -1;">tomorrow</span></span>. So hubby decided to go to work in the morning, get stuff resolved and arranged to prepare for the anticipated paternity absence. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">So for the entire morning, I continued with the on all four + deep breathing routine to help ease the process.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">After realizing things are getting real, I headed to the hot shower, hoping that it might help ease the sensation.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">After a while, sensations started getting sharper and heavier, not too nasty, but enough to signal that I’m nearing labor. Tired of standing, I then tried sitting on the toilet bowl. I noticed more blood spotting as I sat. Yes, by now I’m sure it’s really blood show. I told my mom to get the tub filled with warm water, so I can dip in to ease the pain while waiting for hubby to arrive.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">In case you’re wondering; NO, I didn’t count the contractions. Graduated AMANI classmates mentioned prior that the “511” count may not be really the case, hence it’s best not to depend on it too much, and rely more on how you feel ie. the contraction’s intensity.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">I asked him to join me in the shower and massage my back <i>(we learnt a useful massage trick to ease contraction pain from AMANI class).</i> He jumped in.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">After a few minutes my mom came in to tell us that the tub is ready. So we both went out the shower and into the tub. Yes, the shower was in one room and the tub was in another. Massaging continued.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Since we were at home, with only hubby by my side, (Mom was not allowed close as I felt it bothered my “zen”. Not in a negative way, she just panicked too much), I got to focus more on getting through the contractions, rather than worry about where I was, who’s touching/watching me or what I was wearing or doing. This was probably the best condition I wanted to be in, to get through the pain.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">I remembered peeing twice & pooping a little, according to hubby after about 30mins, hubby was alarmed with brownish stool presence. Not a lot, short strains, luckily because I just had a big one in the morning. So he cleared the tub to clean it - of course to my outrage. After a scolding, he filled it back again with now not-so-warm water (The tap had been running so long that it ran out of heated water. Note that until this point, the water in the tub was always left running and the tub unplugged, so as to keep water flowing).</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">As the massage continued, contractions got shorter but more intense. The massage worked like magic, and every time hubby stopped I’d scream so he’d work those hands again.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">One time I tried touching, to see if I can feel my baby’s head or hair. Still none. False alarm. No crowning yet, but this time around I can feel my … soften!</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Contractions were getting heavier. Hubby and mom were constantly persuading me to go to the hospital. Everything was in the car and ready. But I couldn’t. It was probably mother’s instinct. I felt the “transition” period nearing.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">At this point, I was a monster (according to my husband). But for me, I was in my own zone. The next sensation, I pushed again. Only after hearing my mom telling me to breath, that I recollected myself, then held from pushing. I remembered - Breath the baby out, don’t push. So I told myself “Breath Phya, Breath”.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Breathing was key and I was doing it, but for everyone outside I was making animal sounds. Not puppies. More like turkeys. Much to the concern (and a bit amusement) of hubby.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Then, a stinging sensation. Yes, this is what they call the ring of fire.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Alarmed, hubby noticed a gush of water (of different color), which he described as “smoke-in-the-water”. He suspected my water broke. At this point my lower body is still submerged. My position since I entered the tub up to this point had always been crouching with both hands on wall, relying on gravity to do most of the job, with most effective pain-lessening effect.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">A few seconds later I felt the baby’s head coming out. Swiftly, spinning a little and swooped out. “Baby keluar!”. Alarmed, but calm, hubby who saw the baby coming received by placing his arm below the head, and the other under body, still in water, and guided our baby out of the water. A process that took at most, 20 seconds, from the point of water-break. Hubby described that he was instinctively drawn to receive the baby the way he did, almost as if someone had guided his hand.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Our baby cried, loud. The sky rained, soft. It was a miracle.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Hubby held the baby on his chest, thanking god – Alhamdulillah – and me for the amazing gift. We were happy and relieved that the baby looks healthy after identifying that she was in good shape. Yes, our baby is a girl. A bit blue, but we’d learned that it was normal for the first few seconds after birth.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">After repositioning myself in the tub (which at this point was almost drained), hubby passed the baby to me, and I had my first unforgettable contact with my daughter, chest to chest. My mom gave a towel to cover the baby, and after a few seconds, I started breastfeeding. Hubby recited Azan, and Iqamah.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">The feeling - Beautiful, calm, relieved, glorious. Was in no pain.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">After a few minutes regaining my strength, my mom and hubby helped me out the tub to get to the bed. Baby was still on breast, calmer now. However as we reached the side of the bed, I felt another urge. I figured possibly it was a signal to push the placenta out. With hubby pulling me up from the back, the placenta dropped down, spreading on the floor, by the bed, again thanks to gravity.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">My mom, an ex-nurse, carefully checked to make sure everything was out. Baby was still connected with the umbilical cord, and at this point her skin is already reddish pink, a good sign she is getting valuable blood from the cord.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">My mom called the ambulance some time during the commotion in the tub. About 30mins from the point of labor, the ambulance came. After hubby checked that the cord is clear of blood, we allowed the nurse to clamp. They inspected me, and my showed my husband the tear. Small, 1<sup>st</sup> degree, but they insisted to stitch out of fear of infection. Although hesitant, we submitted. A small sacrifice we figured, considering everything else went well so far (Although the pain from the stitch later on brought a little regret).</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">We headed to Sg Buloh, not a choice WE made, but rather because the ambulance was from there. Warded for a night, for monitoring – difficult – but with all that had happened we were just happy that the baby and I were in excellent condition. In all honesty, the ward and nurses were ok.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">In light of recent outrage towards homebirth and natural birth alike, we’d like to clarify that ours, although prepared, was an accidental homebirth, unplanned, in fact very weakly planned. Hence the story is in no way an encouragement, but merely a story, OUR story.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Although we do believe in natural births, we also recommend sufficient enough understanding of it, mentally, physically and medically. I had done much preparation during my pregnancy, both researching on Hypnobirths and attending AMANI classes, both which I had found very useful in helping me and my hubby prepare for labor, in a sense that it provided us a good understanding of the process, how to face it, and more importantly, its risks.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">We would also like to emphasize that no birth is without risk, be it at a hospital or at home, natural or induced. Which is why it is considered Jihad. But if there is any way to help us prepare for it, we should.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">We also believe that mothers who support natural birth are not anti-hospitals as most perceive, notably with so many hospitals already practicing pro-natural-birth policies. In fact, everyone wants a good experience, coupled by safety precautions.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">However, all of us can agree that there are shortcomings, both in public and private facilities, and there is more that can be done to improve this. So instead of taking a negative approach by condemning one another, there needs to be an effort to find common ground. This, of course, cannot be done with intention of making profit. After all, water-births (a form of natural births despised by some professional practitioners), and natural births, are both offered at some professional institutions, albeit at a higher cost (some outrageously high in Malaysia). So, natural birth is really a matter of choice for discussion by both hospitals and mothers, rather than a debate of technicality or feasibility, which only widens the gap. After all, we all aim to avoid tragedy, be it in form of a traumatizing experience, or loss of life.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">For us personally, aiming for natural birth, and attending the classes helped tremendously in preparing us mentally, spiritually and physically, so as to allow us to keep a calm approach to the unusual case of my 1<sup>st</sup> labor experience, an experience that can well go wrong, but didn’t, thankfully.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">By God’s will, everything happened in a way that it could not have happened in any other way. So although we may want my next labor to be in a fancy water-birth pool with a highly paid specialist monitoring, we could not have asked for more during this one, as everything went, at least to us, more beautifully and easily than we expected.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">So we thank the Almighty for it, along with everybody that made it possible. That includes our family, friends, Sg Buloh General Hospital ambulance, nurses, doctors, books, Ina May, the GBG Malaysia and not least, Hanz of AMANI Birth Class.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif; text-indent: 0cm;">So this is the birth story of our second
child, Muhammad Zayd Harith. He was born in the comfort of our home, in the
same pool his sister was born, in god-blessing Friday morning calmness, safe
and fast onto my palms.</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">It all started when my wife peed on a stick
after finding up her cycle wasn’t come as usual. At first we thought this could
be breastfeeding effect. But no, it was another gift from god that we instantly
embraced and thankful for. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif; text-indent: 0cm;">When she reached 3</span><sup style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; text-indent: 0cm;">rd</sup><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif; text-indent: 0cm;"> trimester, we
hadn’t decided where to deliver the baby. Our parent insisted on having it
delivered in a hospital. We were like “Okay, let’s do it in a hospital, but we
will fight against unnecessary intervention </span><i style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; text-indent: 0cm;">(Dear Doc, take a deep breath, we
are not against you. When we said unnecessary, it really meant unnecessary
until it medically required for the safety of the mother and the child, we know
that and I hope you respected that, too. Yes, episiotomy and AROM, Pitocin, and
pain-management medication MAY help, but we don’t want that until needed, put
the frown away please).</i></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">So we went shopping for hospitals that offer
mother-friendly birth environment (and pocket-friendly for the fathers too).
KPJ looks promising, Columbia and Pantai too. But none of those near to our
place (except KPJ Kajang, notoriously known for medium-high cesarean rate), and
others are handled mostly by male doctors </span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><i>(Dear Docs, I know what darurah
meant, we still have options, so we put our options into consideration. No it’s
not about aurat, it’s about letting other guy seeing you wife butt-naked, when
you know you can actually find a woman to do the same. Plus my wife would
rather have a female doc looking at her vajayjay, let’s just respect that.)</i></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">We also put government hospitals into our
consideration, but judging by the “habitual” intervention most women endured </span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><i>(Not to disrespect you Docs, but it really does happened, just maybe not on
your watch, or maybe it became too habitual you subconsciously find it helpful
and necessary to do so, and i find it rather ‘normalcy’ about it, no big deal)</i>,
we have to cross the hospitals from our list.</span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">So we decided, if everything is alright (I
meant brightly excellent clear cut alright) for example the baby position, the cord,
the amniotic fluid, the heart rate, the growth, the mother’s BP, HB, no GDM, no
protein trace in urine samples, no weird pain and complications, we decided to
do homebirth. If there is a slight chance of complication, we will not put
ourselves in such risk, and we will get admitted in a hospital, no compromise. </span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">You might say second attempt should be easier
because we have experience doing it. WRONG. You are dead wrong. Remember, every
pregnancy is different. The food intake, the environment, the exposure to
stress and state of minds, those are external affluent to the growth of the
baby and the end result of a birth. You don’t eat the same food as you did, or
having the same environment, or developing self management for stress and
stuff, on your prior pregnancy; then how could you say the pregnancy would be
the same for all your babies? That partly explains the 5% rate of giving birth
exactly on your EDD.</span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Anyway, the decision has been made, after we
find out that we are really ‘qualified’ to do the homebirth. The baby was
perfectly fine, Alhamdulillah, no lead of complications <i>(that our doc could
think of)</i>, Alhamdulillah. And the mother was also in good state, despite the relentless
control freak, which is good for a laidback-but-ready-to-strike husband (me).
But, I drew the borderlines; which means whenever I sensed prolonged labor, or a
slight sign of complication (fresh blood, baby not moving, rising body temperature, stress, fatigue, cramps, shivering,
and fatherly-intuition) I will not hesitate to call it off, and admit her to
hospital immediately. </span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Before we reaching to our decision, we took a
birthing class, famous-amongst-the-hippies-or-birth-junkies, hypnobirthing. It
was a good class. It was the practical class of managing pain by
self-hypnotizing. And honestly no, it was not as it claimed self-hypnotize.
You, the husband is the one who hypnotize your wife by channeling and diverting
the wife’s mind to think of other thing while she subconsciously handling the
pain. And you might ended up hypnotizing yourself to sleep (happened to me most
of the time, and boy, it was a good afternoon nap). The book of Mongan Method
teaches us a lot of breathing and birthing techniques, which really helps you
to keep calm and birth the baby out (I really meant it, I made myself to sleep
by doing the breathing technique, and it works like a charm, every single time.
Oh and if you are doing it right, you’ll sleep like a baby (air-liur-basi kind
of baby)). </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif; text-indent: 0cm;">We took out the pool from our storage room,
inflated it, and place it in our room. We start imagining the situations, and
come up with the list of required items. We were 50% ready for it, until I
received a phone call of my mom telling me that she is coming over and stay
with us until my wife give birth.(oh wow, mother instinct, I think she knew her
son is doing it again) “Mission abort. Mission abort”. We deflated the pool,
hide it, and clean up the house to make it looks like normal. So we revisit
plan B, hospital birth. At first the wife looks like an impregnated cat looking
for cupboards. The husband keep it cool by persuading his mom that everything
is working as planned (in reality, we don’t even know which hospital to go to).
The wife’s acting was the key my mom decided to return back home. She acted
like she’s not pregnant at all (by climbing up and down the staircase everyday,
doing the dishes, laundry, and taking care of our first daughter; made my mom
to believed that ‘oh okay, they seemed fine. I don’t need to stay then’. So my
mom return to hometown.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif; text-indent: 0cm;"><i>17 Dec:</i> I was still hoping that the baby will
be born in January 1</span><sup style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; text-indent: 0cm;">st</sup><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif; text-indent: 0cm;">. but the wife have weird feeling that the
baby is coming sooner (currently on week 38). We haven’t bought those item in
the list, so my wife decided to not waiting on me, and called up her friend to
accompany and help her buying those stuff. She managed to complete the required
item. That night, she felt heavy pressure on her pelvic floor “the baby is
engaging further”, and she felt the slow leaking on her underwear. What did I
do? I got back to sleep “people leaks for weeks honey, relax..”</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><i>18 Dec</i>: the birth show. The streak of
brownish mucus. And the leak becomes frequent. Again, “relax, it’s just birth
show and you don’t feel the contraction. it could be next week. Drink a lot of
fluid honey”, and went back to sleep. But this time she was in anger and
insisted me to get all the equipment ready. Judging by the angry-mother high
pitch, I knew she was not goofing around. So I lay the “Dexter sheets” on the
floor, wrapped the bed with plastic sheet, inflated the pool, and getting ready
for everything, but leave the pool emptied for the safety of our daughter,
Hannah.</span></span></div>
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reciting adzan (5:45AM), she woke me up and telling me she felt the
contractions. I asked her if it is strong and she said it’s bearable. So I
offer her the birth ball and ask her to hug it and start practicing hypnobirth.
She started with calm breathing, eyes closed, and swayed away on the ball. Then
I started my ‘half-marathon’ by boiling 2 medium-sized pots, 1 electric kettle,
and a 4 liters hot water dispenser; which will accumulated for a half pail of
hot water. To make the pool water warm, I need 2 full pail of hot water. I
boiled the first round then we went for subuh prayer afterwards.</span></span></div>
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bit fuzzy of what happened but she is in the positive mood. I asked my wife to
lay back and breastfeed Hannah. The moment Hannah happily had her breakfast,
the contractions kicked in strong. Which is good. She did the calm breathing
for a while, and I offered her to eat the dates. The water is boiling, and I’m
doing the second half-pail round for the pool. Then I played the recitation of
surah Maryam from youtube, the ambiance sound of calmness fill up the room
immediately. My wife’s friend had lent us a burning set of aromatherapy and
ylang ylang essential oil. The scented oil is said to provide a deep sense of
intimacy scent (the required hormone for birthing). So then we clocked in the
time she had contractions. It was 7 minutes apart with irregular contraction
length. So I went down and made a mug of hot raspberry leaf tea. She sipped it
in between her contractions. She
prostrated down on all four position, I started to hypnotize her by leading her
deep into the imaginary of the baby working his way thru the birth canal. The
wave is getting closer and intense. She managed the pain by focusing on
breathing. Then she barfed.</span></span></div>
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and she went into the pool. Alhamdulillah it wasn’t cold, neither it was warm.
Just nice, yep that’s the word. She let herself rest freely into the pool, and
the pain was literally more bearable. Our little munchkin, Hannah saw it and
happily went by the ridge of the pool and having so much fun slapping and splashing the water. Her act made my wife
smile and forgot that she was in pain. Hannah is getting eager to get into the
pool. Instead of intense moment, we enjoyed her presence and the cheering voice
of her.</span></span></div>
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5:1:1. She closed her eyes and
hypnotized herself. I asked her to always remember Allah by chanting His name
all the time. She moved from a position to another positions every now and
then. The frequent move helps the mother and the labor, trust me. I offered her
dates but she refused, I know at this moment we are getting really near.</span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><b>8:00AM:</b> the contraction becoming stronger and
stronger, controlled breathing does not help her anymore. I passed the leftover
of the raspberry leaf tea to ‘induce’ more stronger contractions. I asked her
to change the breathing technique, the J breathing. The contraction is getting
closer that we didn’t bother to clock it anymore. The environment is so calm,
in fact very calm. Hannah is in her world of splashing pool.</span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><b>8:30AM:</b> it was back to back surges. the
contractions were strong and super close together. She screamed for affirmation
“say something nice baby!” I was stunned, at first. We don’t really practice
affirmation, and there’s literally nothing nice to say to a screaming mother in
labor. And I asked “like what?”. If you saw her eyes at that time, you’d run
screaming for your momma. The eyes of Sauron. “I don’t know! anything! Oh
please please please” she screamed, again. I remembered a scene in Finding Nemo
“there..there..there..don’t worry you’re gonna be fine” while scooping the
water and let it slowly flow over her waving belly. Yep, it does helped.</span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><b>8:45AM:</b> what I saw was a thing that is
otherworldly. The membrane burst and sprayed white particles into the water.
Like, like, like a male squid bursting out their sperms deep in the sea (I saw
in in geography channel!). the contractions were back to back. The canal bulged
with pressure. And I tell her that we are really really nearing, remember
Allah. She did J breathing all the time, and instead of pushing she breath the
baby out.</span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><b>8:55AM:</b> the head was out entirely, and she
kept breathing the baby out. The baby twisted in the water and let his palm
out. Another surge made the baby move further into the pool. Alhamdulillah the
cord wasn’t tangled at all. At 9:00AM, the baby was out entirely and I hold him
and take him out of the water and put him on his mother’s chest. It happened
briefly. She hold the baby sideway and let the mucus flow out of the baby’s
mouth. He caught his first breath and cried. The baby was fine. The mother
cried and kept chanting Alhamdulilah. However, she had cramps! Her fingers
folded hard against each fingers, and she was panicking. So I read a verse
while slowly massage her hands. Eventually, she calmed down and she regained
the movement of her fingers. “awh cute penis”. Yep, that’s what she said.Then I
adzan the baby and leave the mother to rest. Oh, and Hannah was crying, so I
picked her up and hold her all the time.</span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><b>9:05AM:</b> She rested against the wall of the pool
while waiting for surges to birth out the placenta. Mostly during this moment,
in a hospital environment, the nurse will add pitocin to ‘induce’ the
contraction again. What we did was, we let the baby latching on her nipple and
feed the baby. The effect is the same, the contraction begins, which is
stronger than ever. But the placenta was not out yet.</span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><b>9:15AM:</b> I put a very cleaned bowl into the
toilet bowl, and brought my wife to the toilet and let her sit on it while the
baby is feeding on. During a strong surge, the placenta was coming out slowly
but steady into the bowl. It was intact, alhamdulillah. No tear or weird blood
on it. She was shivering a bit as the blood started to flow out. I give her a
drink and let she rest on the toilet for a little while.</span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">The end of the story is my journey of running
the show from 9.30AM till 7PM. Starting by wrapping the baby, wrapping my wife,
feeding Hannah, send her to babysitter, cutting and clamping cord, cleaning the scene, sending both to hospital for post natal checkup, buying clothes
for wife, calling our parents, taking pictures, bury down the placenta; which
is not as interesting as the birth story.</span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">And kudos to my wife, she had her perineum
intact, for a second time!</span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Everything happened is in control of Allah
SWT, and we could never did this if it’s not of Him who allowed this to
happened. La haula wala quwwata illa billah…alhamdulillah.</span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><b><i>p/s: We never advocate homebirth, neither do
our certified birth educators. It’s a huge risk to take it lightly. But we
advice you to learn to know your body, know your role as husband and wife, know
the basic obstetrician, and read and read and read.</i></b></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">The father of Muhammad Zayd Harith</span></span></div>
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Hanz Jamaludinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15069250576483216563noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9090496891031674002.post-48445159746354582112014-11-23T18:38:00.002-08:002015-01-03T23:14:08.283-08:00Satisfying empowered natural birth in hospital<br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Lepas attend Amani Birth class dgn Hanz memang semangat sangat nak homebirth. Tapi ada rasa tak ready juga. Saya lambat decide nak bersalin kat mana sebab tak sure, tapi last2 decide nak backup juga kalau2 kena pergi hospital. Sebenarnya silap cara ni sebab dlm mindset dah kena fix nak bersalin kat mana.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Bila buat ujian air gula doc kategorikan GDM. Due date baby sepatutnya 29th September. Tapi doc dah beritahu kalau masa tarikh tu takde sakit nak bersalin, kena datang jugak untuk induce. Katanya ibu GDM ada risiko baby akan meninggal masa dilahirkan. Tapi saya decide untuk ignore invitation induce tu sebab rasa baby ok aje, insya'Allah. Tapi akan monitor pergerakan baby jugak. Sempat juga consult Hanz dan Hanz pun beri opinion yang sama.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Pagi 29th September dah rasa sakit yang semacam. Tapi tak kuat dan boleh buat aktiviti macam biasa lagi. Dah stand by sebab rasanya malam ni akan mula surges yang real punya. Memang betul start pukul 1 pagi dah start surges sebenar. En.Suami dah tanya nak pergi hospital ke? Tapi rasanya boleh tahan lagi, saya pergi main gym ball dan banyakkan jalan turun naik tangga. Pukul 3 pagi dah kuat dan kerap surges ni, saya contact Hanz, nak dapatkan advice sebab hati rasa nak homebirth, fikiran nak ke hospital. Hanz kata sekrg dah patut fix, satu je, hospital or homebirth (dlm kelas pun dah diberitahu sebenarnya, tapi saya ni yang susah nak decide..huhu) Hanz advice untuk mandi dulu kalau rasa lambat lagi. So, lepas tu saya pergi mandi dan berendam dalam pool. En.Suami la yang gigih mengisi air suam dalam pool, sebelum tu dah gigih carikan pool dan gym ball..hehe.Masa berendam memang start rasa sakit yang 'lain', kuat sakitnya. Terus ajak En.Suami pergi hospital, sebab rasanya dah sampai masa. Lepas hantar anak2 kat rumah parents, terus pergi ke KPJ. Alhamdulillah pagi tu kereta tak banyak. Sampai aje emergency entrance, air ketuban pecah. Bersalin sebelum ni air ketuban nurse yang pecahkan, bila pecah sendiri ni baru la tau, ooo macam ni rupanya pecah natural. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Dekat wad emergency tu nurse terus suruh baring nak buat CTG. Tapi tak jadi sebab doc check bukaan dan kata dah fully dilated. Dekat labour room pulak, kecoh sikit sebab nurse nak bagi gas untuk elakkan baby keluar awal atas sebab nak tunggu doc. Tapi saya kata takpe, kalau takde doc pun, lagipun masa 1st birth dah merasa gas ni, tak membantu saya, rasa nak muntah dengan loya yang datang. Masa tu ada juga tolak I.V drips dengan request nurse supaya tak baringkan katil. Lepas tu saya remind nurse untuk DCC. Nurse ni macam serba salah, dia call doc dulu, akhirnya dia kata doc bagi tapi delay 5 minit aje. </span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 16.3090915679932px;"><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Alhamdulillah baby keluar lepas 3 kali breath out. Ini 1st time En.Suami masuk masa bersalin, memang rasa lagi semangat masa nak bersalin. Dia duduk sebelah dan bagi semangat nak push, lepas tu inform saya, baby dah keluar sampai mana. Terus teringat Hanz ajar dalam kelas tentang peranan suami. Besar impact rupanya. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; line-height: 16.3090915679932px; text-align: justify;">Lepas baby keluar nurse suruh ambil baby untuk skin to skin dan breastfeed. 1st time jugak merasa macam ni. Masa ni tali pusat pun tak potong lagi. Feeling yang sangat best.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Tak lama lepas tu doc datang untuk stiches. Alhamdulillah, ni consider pengalaman bersalin yang terbaik sekali. Saya sebenarnya bukan jenis suka argue atau demand macam2, tapi kali ni terpaksa jugak sikit sebab nak make sure ikut birth plan.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">En.Suami excited pulak, siap cakap kalau mcm ni tiap2 tahun bersalin pun dia ok. Lepas tu bising kat saya sebab dia kata patut dia yang cakap kat nurse pasal DCC semua tu. Haih.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Apa-apa pun terima kasih banyak dekat Hanz dan group GBG sebab sudi berkongsi ilmu dengan kami. Alhamdulillah, merasa juga No CTG, No AROM, No IV drips, dapat skin to skin baby dan dapat DCC.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Alhamdulillah. Kelahiran anak ke-2 kali ini dipermudahkan Allah. Sakit tetap rasa tapi tidak lama seperti waktu bersalinkan Aliya dulu, 14 jam dalam labour room + 6 jam tak boleh bangun selepas bius. So total is 20 hours before I can hold and breastfeed her. Itu cerita sakit masa nak beranak. Lepas beranak pula I sufferred back pain for almost 1 year. Bila cuaca sejuk je terasa sakit di tempat yg dibius tu. Rasanya ngilu dan mencengkam. Derita tahu. So, for this second birth I don’t want my belly to be cut open for the second time. Untuk mencapai impian itu, banyak usaha diperlukan. Bukan setakat hanya berharap. I do a lots of reading, baca birth story dan tanya pengalaman kawan-kawan yang berjaya VBAC/VBAMC di group GBG dan ICAN, jaga kesihatan dan pemakanan, do exercise, pergi birth preparation class dan akhir sekali tidak putus berdoa. Allah itu Maha Pengasih lagi Maha Penyayang. Dia melihat dan mendengar segala usaha dan doa kita.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">EDD is on 16/8 but I hope that the baby will come out on 17/8 so that we can share the same birthday date and celebrate it together =P<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Allah lebih mengetahui dan Dia adalah sebaik perancang. Bloody show datang pada subuh 12 August (sama macam Aliya dulu, bloody show pada waktu subuh). So dalam hati rasa baby mungkin akan keluar hari ini atau paling lewat esok pagi. Bagi tahu En.N supaya off from work hari ni.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">9.00 a.m - dah terasa surges yang kerap. Pergi sarapan makan roti canai dulu. Masa sarapan tu berapa kali stop makan buat deep breathing sebab surges datang. Puas nak menghabiskan sekeping roti canai. En.N ajak pergi hospital terus lepas sarapan but I refused. Nak balik rumah dulu. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">10.30 a.m - Timing surges guna apps contraction timer. sudah 5 minutes apart. Kat rumah layan sakit dengan hot shower. Memang terasa sangat-sangat lega bila warm water mengalir di belakang badan. Lama duduk dalam bilik air sampai En.N ketuk pintu tanya saya ok ke tak. Lepas keluar dari bilik air minta En.N bukakan pool dan isikan air. Rasa macam nak berendam. Masa jadi badak berendam tu banyak kali En.N tanya sambil gelak2 “Nak beranak kat rumah ke?”. Saya pun juga sambil gelak jawab ”Ye la, nak beranak kat rumah la ni. Nak home water birth”. Senyap kejap dia. Lepastu dia cakap “Hang, biar betui. Siapa nak jadi bidan ni nanti?”. Terus dia speaking utara. Haha…Saja menyakat. So saya jawab “Kita pergi hospital lepas solat zuhur” (*-*)</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">2.00 p.m – Sampai di GMC. Alhamdulillah orang tak berapa ramai. Bagi tahu nurse saya dah ada rasa surges lima minit sekali. Buat CTG dan terus kene admit.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">4.00 p.m – Dr. Hamiza datang buat VE. Sudah 4cm dilated. Masa dalam bilik tu saya makan kurma nabi,minum air zamzam dan juga air red raspberry leaf tea yang di bawa dari rumah. Bila surges datang saya buat deep breathing dan juga mandi hot shower sambil hip sway. Doa Nabi Yunus memang tak putus baca. Dan juga “Yaa Fattaahu Yaa Rahman Ya Rahim” (Wahai Zat Pembuka Pintu Rahmat, Wahai Zat Yang Maha Pengasih, Wahai Zat Yang Maha Penyayang) dari bukaan satu sehingga baby lahir.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">8.45 p.m – My parent datang bawa Aliya. Bila tengok dia bergenang air mata ni. Ambil dan peluk cium dia.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">9.30 p.m - Dr. Hamiza sampai di GMC. Buat VE and I was 9 cm. Doctor pecahkan air ketuban dan terus rasa nak meneran. Teran kali yang pertama takde apa-apa. Kali ke-2 teran doktor dan En.N dah nampak rambut baby. Teran kali yang ke-3 baby terus meluncur keluar tepat jam 10.00 p.m. Sangat licin dan laju dia keluar. Nasib baik doktor Hamiza sempat 'tangkap'. Doktor ambil baby dan terus letak atas dada. Sangat sebak masa ni. Alhamdulillah banyak yang Allah telah permudahkan bersalin kali ini. Dapat jumpa doktor yang support VBAC, islamic birth centre practice, nice and helpful nurses dan all my wishes doktor hamiza tunaikan; immediately skin to skin with the baby, dapat delay cord clamping utk baby, no IV drip, no episiotomy and no gas or pain killer. Doktor hanya lap sikit-sikit je badan baby dan malam tu baby tido dengan masih ada baki vernix menyaluti badan, wangi. En.N also was honoured to cut the ribbon (baby cord) after it stop pulsating. He was with me in the labour room from the beginning seeing me in pain, baby come out and until I get stiches. Allahuakbar. Allah the Almighty. Thank you for giving us this opportunity and a sweet moment to be remember for the whole life. </span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 18.4799995422363px;">Turned out that his birthday was at 12.15 am, 21st August 2014.</span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 18.4799995422363px;">Alhamdulillah, I have given birth safely to a baby boy. It was a successful VBAC and natural birth, despite being a gruelling 40 hours of labour (my water broke at 8.15am on 19th August).</span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 18.4799995422363px;">Since I did not want to be induced, I had to let nature take its course. Hubby and I slept overnight at the labour room, and it was not a very pleasant room to settle down and get cosy.</span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 18.4799995422363px;">The pain was bearable during the first 30 hours or so, but the real deal began during the last 10. Long story short, my baby was ready to come out and his head was very low, but apparently, my cervix dilates very slowly.</span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 18.4799995422363px;">That means that I was in an intense contraction (the kind that makes me wanted to poop) for quite a long time but my cervix was only at 5cm. The progression to 10cm was very long, even Dr Idora had to admit that she can't really tell how long do I have to wait.</span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 18.4799995422363px;">Eventhough the plan was to have a natural and no intervention birth, I have to admit that things did not turn out 100% according to plan. I agreed for a number of VEs (because I just have to know how long I have progressed), I surrendered to the gas for pain management and I allowed Dr Idora to help me with the dilation (I think she had to do some massage or something in there) - which actually helped. I also had to surrender to purple pushing, I was too tired enduring the long hours of pain to ask to change positions, but Dr Idora and the nurses was so encouraging and did their best to help me with my effort.</span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 18.4799995422363px;">Not to mention my husband who reminded me of a coach of sorts, giving me strength throughout the labour and to push baby out (eventhough I think to a certain extent I was being annoying when I was high with the gas. Hahah.That part was funny, I felt like floating and I was talking silly). He was my pillar of strength, strength that I gained everytime I saw his face encouraging me. Thanks dear :*</span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 18.4799995422363px;">I ended up with a first degree natural tear. In retrospect, maybe it was not a really gentle birth, but I am not looking back with regrets because I was aware of my decisions and what is being done to my body and my baby - that is all that matters.</span></div>
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<span style="line-height: 18.4799995422363px;">Meet our newfound love, Engku Khaleeli bin Engku Emri. Born at 3.02 kg with lots and lots of hair. Heheh. Alhamdulillah, Allahu Akbar.</span></div>
</span></span>Hanz Jamaludinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15069250576483216563noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9090496891031674002.post-91306147333218594122014-09-15T22:42:00.000-07:002015-01-03T23:09:26.973-08:00Trust in Almighty, trust in own body paid off | Baby Muhammad's active birth story<br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Pernah suatu ketika, salah seorang rakan seperjuangan, Zu menyuarakan impiannya untuk homebirth, ditemani suami dan anak2.. saya terkejut .. biar betul dia ni.. (mase tu xtau pun saya preggy - Bahzi berumur 1y8m, Baheera plak 5m) sehinggalah kandungan saya masuk 4 bulan, baru tahu saya sedang preggy.. Alhamdulillah, Berkat amal pemakanan sunnah, saya langsung tidak mengalami alahan seperti masa preggy Bahzi dan Baheera dulu. Tetibe terdetik di hati, memasang angan2 seperti mana impian rakan tadi..hehe.. berangan je kot. Saya pun usha2 la page AMANI, dan kebetulan ada kelas preview yang akan dijalankan esoknya. Saya terus register, semangat! dalam kelas tu ada lagi 2 pasangan lain..dari yang saya perhatikan, mereka ni dah memang terdedah dan ada basic pasal AMANI, tp kami, zero! Dah la sampai kelas lambat (sesat, dan terpaksa minta tolong pak polisi yang hantarkan kami..hihi) at least preview ni meninggalkan kesan kepada kami.. kami bersemangat untuk ikuti kelas selanjutnya.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Alhamdulillah.. ilmu baru bagi kami..bermula dari situ, sy join grup2 support dan memahami apakah Natural birth, Gentle birth, Hypno birth dll.. just untuk gali ilmu dan tak decide pun kami akan homebirth! cume ade la gurau2 dengan hubby, "abg jadi bidan nti eh" dia ckp tak kisah je.. tapi dia ingatkan, jangan terlalu yakin, mohon daripada Allah supaya Dia permudahkan segala urusan, Allah jua la sebaik2 perancang Dia juga yang menentukan segalanya.. Semakin dekat due date, saya juga merasa ragu2, risau memikirkan andai berlaku sebarang complication, tapi saya semakin punyai keyakinan setelah melakukan solat istikharah, semoga Allah permudahkan urusan kami. Kami tawakal.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Tepat jam 5.30pagi, terjaga dari tidur dek bunyi alarm.. tetiba perut rasa memulas je.. baru teringat malam tadi banyak makan tembikai.. padan muke ambe.. huhu.. walaupun dah ulang alik toilet 2-3x, perut still rasa tak selesa gak.. masa tu rasa serik sangat makan tembikai..hihi..</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Lebih kurang jam 6 lebih, lepas mandi dan solat subuh..sempat amik 3sudu Qaseh, minum jus delima al-Rumman, secawan teh Raspberry Leaf dan 3 biji kurma sebagai pembekal tenaga kot2 la saya akan bersalin, sebab masa tu fikir mungkin Braxton Hicks je ni.. Bagitahu suami perut memulas, dia dah mula risau. Tapi saya? still lagi was2.. so, macam biasa, saya bergelek dengan birth ball, peneman setiap kali saya rasa tak selesa.. sambil2 tu siapkan bubur untuk Baheera, kemas baju anak-anak untuk hantar ke rumah BS.. tak sempat sediakan breakfast sebab suami tak bagi buat, dia dah makin risau. Masa ni saya terus pm my CBE</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Jam 7.30pagi, baru saya perasan surges yang datang setiap 10minit, so ni bukan braxton hicks la. ok, saya layankan aje.. bergelek atas birth ball dengan Baheera.. minta hubby siapkan pool. baru je suku air dalam pool, Bahzi & Baheera dah sibuk berendam dalam tu.. hubby tanya tak nak join dorang ke? eh, tak kanla dalam air sejuk gitu kot? Baru la hubby teringat nak masak air..hihi..kelam kabut hubbby ku pagi ni.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Dalam jam 8.30 pagi gitu,saya call my mom.. bagitahu pada dia yang saya dah mula sakit2,walaupun still tiada tanda yang keluar. tapi mak dah suruh kami pergi hospital. Tapi tak lame pastu tiba2 ade keluar darah sikit, ok..baru saya yakin yang saya akan bersalin hari ni.. saya fikir mungkin saya akan lama in labour sebabnye mase Bahzi & Baheera dulu, kalau keluar tanda darah pagi ni, kebiasaannya pagi esok baru saya akan bersalin.. tu yang sempat shopping dan pergi kenduri bagai..hihi..</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Jam 8.40pagi, saya terus masuk pool berendam..Alhamdulillah..rase nyaman sangat..rasa lebih relax. Di saat ni saya dah tak merase surges. Sy berlunjur dan bersandar pada dinding. Surges makin kerap tapi tidak kuat.. asal datang surges je, saya bergelek2 lembut (tak ingat apa istilahnya), sambil pejam kan mata dan terbayang pulak kelopak bunga yang sedang mengembang..hihi.. sambil tu saya terlelap..hubby cepat2 panggil saya, dia risau tgk sy terlelap..hihi..</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Jam 9.00 pagi, suami bagitahu yang dia nak pergi hantar anak-anak ke rumah BS, tapi saya tak benarkan sebab saya tak nak nanti saya bersalin sorang2..huhu..tapi tengah saya duk melayan surges, suami sempat juga pergi hantar diorang..katenye kot nanti tak leh nak concentrate..hihi.. Saya still melayan surges.yang datang setiap 5 minit. Yes, deep breathing sangat2 membantu mengurangkan sakit ketika surges dan secara tak langsung membekalkan oksigen pada baby. Dan yes, betul ckp CBE sy, kite sebenarnye boleh control sakit kita terutamanya masa nak bersalin, saya langsung tak panik dan sangat relax melayan surges. Sambil zikir doa Nabi Yunus dan setiap masa juga la saya mohon maaf dari suami. Saat ini suami disisi, hanya pegang dia dan dia plak kejap2 duk alirkan air suam pada badan saya, sangat2 lega dan tenang..</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Jam 9.15 pagi, saya rasa macam nak teran tapi suami ingatkan saya jangan teran tapi still deep breathing, takut nanti akan koyak.. Suami suggest saya beralih tempat supaya saya dapat bersandar pada katil, mungkin lebih selesa katanya, saya setuju dan cuba untuk merangkak, tapi dalam keadaan posisi kneeling, saya hanya sempat capai hujung katil je tetibe terdengar bunyi 'pop'..serentak kami terucap 'Allahuakbar'.. ok, this is our 1st time ok, sebelum ni saya tak pernah dengar bunyi ketuban pecah, memang teruja. Beberapa saat pastu suami cakap da nampak kepala baby dan dgn lajunya baby meluncur dan berpusing, terus suami sambut..</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Tepat jam 9.23pagi.. Saya tanya suami, "sayang dah bersalin ke?" eh, cepatnye.. dalam keadaan tak ready kot masa tu.. tak sempat pun beralih tempat.. Alhamdulillah.. Suami pun korek mulut baby untuk keluarkan semua lendir (baby pun dah terbersin) dan selepas suami azan dan iqamat di telinga baby, suami terus pass baby pada saya untuk bonding.. Alhamdulillah.. tak sampai 5 minit pas tu saya rasa macam surges datang sekali lagi, dan uri pun keluar, complete.. step sterusnye delay cord clamping..tak silap lebih kurang jam 6 petang, suami saya memotong tali pusat anak, sebenarnya memang tak plan nak buat Lotus Birth, tu yang kami decide untuk potong hari tu jugak. tak mahu menyusahkan suami untuk uruskan baby nanti..huhu..baby pun kami tak terus mandikan, biarkan je selaput vernix mengering..best sangat bau baby :) </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Alhamdulillah..syukur ke hadratNya kerana diberi peluang untuk menikmati kelahiran secara Natural Birth. Alhamdulillah, kali ni saya tak perlu melalui prosedur2 seperti VE, AROM, pitocin semua.. dan syukur sangat2 kerana proses kelahiran kedua-dua anak sebelum ni dan yang ketiga ni juga saya tidak mengalami sebarang koyakan dan luka.. tapi kelahiran anak yang ketiga ni saya rasakan proses kelahiran yang sangat indah..saya tidak merasa sakit surges seperti sebelum ni, tempoh yang sangat singkat dan sangat mudah..Alhamdulillah.. Trust Your Body, Trust Your Creator.. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Sebelum, semasa dan selepas bersalin, Peranan dan support dari suami sangat-sangat penting.. terima qaseh abang.. abang lah epidural syg..hihihi</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><b>Baby Boy, Aqil Iman. 3.2 KG.</b></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">1st& 2nd sept: BH. Unconsistent, feel like period cramp.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 13.63636302948px; line-height: 17.5636348724365px;">Sms my husband, he' s working at pahang. Me at in laws place. keningau sabah( tukar angin nak bersalin kat sabah pula, b4 this, both of my kids were born at DEMC shah alam) . Just let him know about my current situation</span><span style="font-size: 13.63636302948px; line-height: 17.5636348724365px;"> </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 13.63636302948px; line-height: 17.5636348724365px;">5am: mild cramping happen. So, tell my MIL to look after my kids sementara layan surge sambil tunggu husband balik. Solat subuh, then hot shower. Release skit.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 13.63636302948px; line-height: 17.5636348724365px;">Breakfast, drink rasberry tea, vco,extra virgin olive oil and papaya.</span></div>
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6am: sensation comes more frequent. When its come, i walk,walk and walk around the house. Zikir and practising deep breathing. Then, recite surah maryam,relaks and tertido pula.</div>
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<span style="font-size: 13.63636302948px; line-height: 17.5636348724365px;">8am: the waves came and frequent. I tak timed pun sebb malas. I just let it be</span><span style="font-size: 13.63636302948px; line-height: 17.5636348724365px;"> </span><i class="_4-k1 img sp_vDfewtEkPde sx_7ce69e" style="background-image: url(https://fbstatic-a.akamaihd.net/rsrc.php/v2/yP/r/7SrH40Z4RBE.png); background-position: 0px -8474px; background-repeat: no-repeat; background-size: 28px 8648px; display: inline-block; font-size: 13.63636302948px; height: 16px; line-height: 17.5636348724365px; vertical-align: -3px; width: 16px;"></i><span style="font-size: 13.63636302948px; line-height: 17.5636348724365px;"> </span><span style="font-size: 13.63636302948px; line-height: 17.5636348724365px;">then FIL beli mee sup, i makan dlu. Tapi kurang selera, minum dan banyak kali gi tandas. Macam biasa klu dtg surge, i jalan je smpi dia brenti. Sambil i tgk scenery di luar rumah, nice view with clean environment. Non toxic and virgin air.</span><span style="font-size: 13.63636302948px; line-height: 17.5636348724365px;"> </span></div>
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Then anak2 i bangun, i join them dancing,watch hi5 and mickey mouse clubhouse:-) serius, i tak rasa sakit pun. Still bearable.</div>
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<span style="font-size: 13.63636302948px; line-height: 17.5636348724365px;">10am: the surge become intense and hard. I apply deep breathing, and zikir nabi yunus. Alhamdulillah, deep breathing i x kelaut, i manage to visualize and sampai tahap i xtakut utk next surge.</span><span style="font-size: 13.63636302948px; line-height: 17.5636348724365px;"> </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 13.63636302948px; line-height: 17.5636348724365px;">MIL tanya nak gi hospital tak, i ckp ok mum, so dia pack barang2 i. FIL i reverse kereta untuk ke hospital.</span></div>
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10.15am: everything ready, i masuk bilik kejap masa surge stop sbb nak ambil dokumen and handbag. Big waves came, it feel like big poo, i stop,standing, apply deep breathing. Transition and i felt the ring of fire, sangat sekejap. 5 saat je rasanya. I sempat jerit pggl MIL, then SROM with baby head out while im standing. Our house helper mak minah dengan lajunya sambut kepala baby, everything was out with cord. Then take baby,skin to skin. He cried n i cuddle him. Accidently homebirth.</div>
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<span style="font-size: 13.63636302948px; line-height: 17.5636348724365px;">No epi, 1st tear degree, No stiches, skin to skin, SROM, delay cord clamping.</span></div>
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Dr in govt hospital said,for next baby, i should get midwife je utk homebirthing. Yey!!</div>
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<span style="font-size: 13.63636302948px; line-height: 17.5636348724365px;">Last 2 kids, i was induce, and vacuum with epi n stiched. Doctor did say that i tak pandai push. Tu yg vacuum. But now, i pandai dh lepas gi kelas AMANI.</span><span style="font-size: 13.63636302948px; line-height: 17.5636348724365px;"> </span></div>
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Thanks kak <a class="profileLink" data-hovercard="/ajax/hovercard/user.php?id=1654585934&extragetparams=%7B%22directed_target_id%22%3A60608451197%7D" href="https://www.facebook.com/HanzJamaludin" style="color: #3b5998; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;">Hanz Jamaludin</a> dgn ilmu childbirth and this group for the supports and knowledges. This moment will be the best experience ever in my life. Thnks GBG!</div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Wafa nak cerita macam mana mama lahirkan wafa. Sebelum tu, abang wafa lahir secara czer. Alasan doktor sebab keadaan masa tu dah fetal distress. Padahal sebab mama stress kena strap baring je tak boleh gerak. Terpaksa la abg lahir secara czer. Sepanjang berpantangkan abang, mama ashik nangis je sebab trauma kena czer. So, mama kata that's enough!! Adik lahir kat rumah, no more medical intervention, go for vbac!!</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Bermulalah kisah wafa pulak. Sepanjang mama mengandungkan wafa, mama ambik semua supplement dari REAL FOOD, takde pun supplement dari klinik atau lain2. Hari hari mama ambik protein, calcium, asid folik yang cukup dari sumber kekacang, sayuran & buahan. Sesudu pati delima gulsan + sesudu madu campur setengah cawan air mesti wafa akan rasa hari hari.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Tak lupa jugak exercise. Mama tengok youtube buat exercise, kadang kadang buat belly dancing. Syok betul dancing dengan mama dalam perut. Hehe...</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Sepanjang mama mengandungkan wafa jugak, mama buat research habis habisan untuk homebirth sampai bisnes mama agak ke laut, haha... Hari hari mama cari info baru melalui group GBG, ICAN, UC, Spinning babies, birth story, youtube dan google. Mama baca buku gentle birth & buat revision balik Amani notes yg Aunty Hanz bagi masa Amani kelas. Owh ye... Lupa bagitau, mama dah pergi kelas intensive Amani dgn Aunty Hanz sebelum mama conceive wafa.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Masa wafa dalam perut mama masuk 2nd trimester, mama dah buat scar massage. Lepas 30 minggu, mama jumpa Prof Zainal VR Clinic Homeopati untuk ambik ubat homeopati pulak. Bermula tu juga wafa rasa ubat homeopati plak.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Doktor bagi EDD untuk wafa keluar dari perut mama 4 julai. Tapi wafa keluar dari perut mama genap 41 minggu 2 hari pada 13 Julai.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Bermula 36 minggu, hari hari wafa bagi mama tanda braxton hicks sekali sehari supaya mama bersedia. Masuk 4 julai, wafa tak keluar lagi tapi mama cool je. Hari hari mama ajak ayah window shopping. Minum air kelapa pun hari hari. Sebelum tu, start 32 minggu mama dah minum RLT hari hari, beli kat kedai organik. Dan tak lupa jugak mama ambik vit c yang jenis soluble lepas dah masuk 36 minggu.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Masuk 41 minggu, baru mama teringat nak makan nenas. Esok paginya (12 julai) bloody show pun datang, masa tu pukul 2.30 pagi, mama nak pee, ternampak darah. Wow!! Mama excited sampai tak tidur dah lepas tu. Bloody show datang je mama dah rasa surge. Surge yang boleh tahan lagi tu tapi bila tiap kali datang, memang tak boleh tidur, mama buat deep breathing tiap kali surge datang.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Subuhnya, mama whatsapp aunty zura, since dia yang paling dekat dalam melaka ni untuk minta tolong apa apa. Sekali tu je whatsapp, lepas tu dah tak tengok phone. Mama fokus deep breathing je.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Bermula datang bloody show tu, tiap kali surge, mesti keluar darah. Mama teringat post uterine rupture dalam group ican. Sempat bukak post tu balik & baca balik semua komen dalam post tu. Mama risau uterine rupture, tapi bila cek balik rupa darah & bentuk perut. Okey...ni bukan uterine rupture. So mama terus keep calm.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Tiap 1-2 jam, mama ambik ubat homeopati untuk active labour, makan kurma & ayah buatkan RLT. Mama tak lalu sangat nak makan berat, jadi mama makan kurma je.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Surge terus datang & makin rapat selang masa. Sakit dia, mama boleh tahan lagi lepas tukar tukar position & buat deep breathing. Antara surge, mama selalu cuba curi masa untuk tidur supaya ada tenaga sikit.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Mindset mama dah agak masa labour akan panjang sebab nak vbac. Tapi hari hari masa mengandung, mama tetap visualize akan sambut wafa dalam air kat rumah sendiri.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Masa terus berlalu dari asar ke maghrib, dari maghrib ke isyak. Mama terus layan surges sambil zikir dan doa. Pukul 11 malam, mama dah ngantuk sangat, jadi mama baring flat je sebab nak tidur. Tapi bila surge datang je, mama terus bangun, squat & deep breathing. Position paling selesa untuk mama adalah squatting & deep breathing.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Ayah tanya mama agaknya bila baby akan keluar. Mama kata instinct mama sebelum subuh 13 julai. Pukul 11 malam tu jugak, ayah tidurkan abang. Sebab ayah nak pam pool & isi air. Mama selesa nak pool letak kat ruang tamu tapi paip jauh. So ayah keluar kejap cari hose yang panjang untuk isi air.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Lepas dah siap pam & isi air, ayah temankan mama layan surges. Sebab surges dah makin kuat. Tiap kali surge datang, ayah peluk mama & urut belakang bahagian pinggang.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Mama nak masuk dalam pool tapi sebab tiap kali surge datang, darah keluar. Mama sayang nak masuk, nanti ayah penat nak tukar air kotor.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Pukul 4 pagi, surge dah makin kuat yg mama dah tak tahan. Mama mula humming sambil sebut Allah....tiap kali surge datang.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Azan subuh berkumandang tapi wafa belum rasa nak keluar lagi. Mama agak rasa kecewa sikit sebab target tak kena. Jadi mama usap perut banyak kali pujuk wafa "Wafa, kita boleh buat sama sama. Kita kuat!!"</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Pukul 8 pagi, mama lapar minta ayah buatkan roti bakar. Mama makan 2 keping, makan kurma & minum RLT lagi. Tenaga mama dah makin kurang sebab labour yang panjang. Tapi mama tetap kuatkan semangat dan terus doa.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Seriously, sejak lepas subuh 13 julai tu, mama betul betul rasa pergantungan pada Allah, minta Allah bagi kekuatan. Berbeza dengan kat hospital, sakit tetap ada dan kadang kita bergantung pada alat yang doktor ada.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Mula ketuban pecah pukul 8.30 pagi. Cek warna air ketuban. Okey, jernih, tiada apa yang perlu dirisaukan. Terus minum air banyak banyak.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Pukul 9.30 pagi, mama rasa nak poo. Mama pergi tandas tapi tak rasa nak keluar apa. Mama cakap dengan ayah mama sembelit tak boleh poo. Mama kata mesti sembelit sebab makan roti. Ayah pun kata macam tu masuk kolam & buang je dalam kolam ni.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Tiba tiba mama kata baby nak keluar kot (1st time normal so tak dapat bayang fasa pushing). So mama masuk dalam kolam. Masa tu, perut mama rasa sakit sangat memang rasa macam sembelit.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Abang plak masa tu sibuk nak masuk kolam jugak. Dia tengok macam best je kalau dapat main air. Air agak dah sejuk masa tu. Mama mintak ayah keluarkan air (air penuh sangat) & tambah air panas. Jadi ayah agak kelam kabut nak layan abang yang sibuk nak main air kolam & mama yang rasa nak poo sangat.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Ayah angkat abang letak dalam bilik air main dengan air dalam baldi. Kemudian, terus keluarkan air dari kolam & masukkan air panas.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Mama masa tu try teran ingat sembelit nak poo. Tapi tak keluar apa. Ayah dah agak wafa nak keluar jadi ayah terus masuk pool sekali ready nak sambut. So ayah kata baby nak keluar dah ni.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Ayah dah nampak kepala wafa. Mama diam kejap takde surge datang (fasa transition) dalam 10 minit. Surge datang lagi.Mama masa tu yang dah nak kehabisan tenaga, push lagi sekali sekuat kuat hati sebab dah tak larat sangat, nak habiskan semua. Deep breathing semua dah ke laut masa pushing. Mama masa tu dalam position squatting.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif; line-height: 17.5636348724365px;">Ayah nampak wafa pusing macam gerudi masa keluar, terus ayah tangkap. Yeah!! Alhamdulillah, pukul 9.55 pagi, Wafa selamat lahir secara waterbirth. Ayah keluarkan wafa dari air. Wafa terus nangis. Mama terus peluk dengan kain tuala & skin to skin, wafa terdiam, nikmat sungguh dalam dakapan mama. Lepas 10 minit, wafa terus minum kolostrum mama.</span><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif; line-height: 17.5636348724365px;"> </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Surge datang lagi, mama tau uri nak keluar. Tapi masa tu mama dalam keadaan posisi duduk dalam pool lagi. Jadi uri macam tersekat nak keluar. Ayah suruh squat tapi mama dah penat sangat. Dalam masa yang sama, mama sempat telan sebiji pil Yunnan baiyou lepas tengok darah penuh dalam pool.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Sebab uri tak keluar lagi, mama keluar dari pool & duduk kat tepi katil. Tali pusat agak pendek, jadi agak susah mama nak bawak wafa.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Pukul 10.30 pagi, mama yang dah kepenatan sangat terus tertidur sampai pukul 12.30 tengahari. Wafa pun tidur sebelah mama.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Pukul 12.30 tengahari, aunty Zura pun datang bawak nasi ayam & air Oren peel fresh. Nikmat tak terkata makan & minum lepas bersalin sebab seharian tak makan sangat. Lepas makan, Aunty Zura suruh tiup botol kosong sambil squat. Alhamdulillah, uri pun selamat keluar.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Mama biarkan uri teman wafa sampai tali pusat luruh putus sendiri. Mama buat lotus birth, tabur rosemary powder atas uri wafa.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Aunty Zura tolong ayah kemaskan rumah, siapkan katil untuk mama & wafa. Dan siapkan diri wafa jugak.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Mama dapat 2nd degree tear sebab fasa pushing yg ke laut. Tapi mama tak jahit, biarkan sembuh sendiri dengan ubat homeopati Prof Zainal, sapu gel gamat, letak seaweed & buat sitz bath. Alhamdulillah, sekarang luka dah cantum.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Terima Kasih aunties especially to Aunty Hanz, Aunty Zura, Aunty Fia, Aunty Liza & Aunty Waida yang sudi layan chit chat, sharing, doakan dan baca kisah panjang ni.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">*group hugs*</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 17.5636348724365px;"><b>Aliya Al Wafa</b></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 17.5636348724365px;"><b>4.5 kg, 55 cm (selepas 27 hari)</b></span></span></div>
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